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She... deleted me? - November 28th 2010, 03:37 AM

So there is this girl who likes my ex. Me and my ex have been having a lot of problems and now he won't talk to me. Anyways this girl named Ana really likes him, but he uses her because she gives him attention. Well things have always seemed kind of weird between me and Ana, and she invites my friend group to hang out but never invites me.

Well today I sent her a text asking if she doesn't like me or something (because I have been sensing something). She didn't respond and she deleted me from her facebook. I'm so confused.


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Re: She... deleted me? - November 28th 2010, 07:48 PM

She sounds like a bitch, honestly.
I don't think you should care much about it. She needs to figure things out on her own and if she's not willing to see that your ex uses her, then she'll find out the hard way.

It sucks that she talks to your friends and not you, but you have to ask yourself if its worth it.


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Re: She... deleted me? - November 28th 2010, 10:17 PM

That's so weird! Why would she hate you when you didn't do anything? It sounds like you've moved on from your ex. Maybe you could talk to her and work things out between the two of you? I hope everything works out well for you.


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Re: She... deleted me? - November 28th 2010, 10:32 PM

She obviously has a problem with you for some reason, but she doesn't really seem worth the worrying! I would just forget about her and get on with things, she doesn't sound like a good friend anyway.

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Re: She... deleted me? - November 29th 2010, 08:48 PM

Hey Nicole,

It must be pretty tough to have your friend treat you this way, but I wouldn't be surprised if it all blew over and she realised that you're more important to her than your ex. If she doesn't then I know it sounds harsh but she isn't worth the hassle. You could try talking to your friends about how you feel left out when they hang out with Ana. If they're good friends they'll understand and make sure they spend time with you as well.

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Re: She... deleted me? - November 29th 2010, 10:37 PM

She obviously has a problem with you and if her way of dealing with it when you ask her about it is to delete you then she isn't worth your worry. I'd just leave her to it and let her find out about your ex on her own. As for her hanging out with your friends and not inviting you, then you should talk to your friends and ask them to include you as well, don't let her push you out.
   
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Re: She... deleted me? - November 30th 2010, 03:28 AM

Thanks for your answers guys. Today I talked to my friend who told Ana that I called her a whore and cleared things up. I also found out Ana doesn't like my ex anymore so things should get better soon.


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