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from best friends to acquantances - December 11th 2010, 02:15 AM

So pretty much my best friend in the sorority for almost a year now seems completely different. Ever since she got a fake id she started just going out to the bars all the time and since I dont have one..i couldnt be a part of that. She started hanging around other girls in the soro who have fakes and slowly i noticed we werent as close. But now its at the point where I cant even stand to be in her prescense...i dont know why. She heard me talk crap about her in the hall...she was failing a class and I was just kinda like how can I feel bad for her when she goes out all the time...and then I went on to say that I hate how were not friends anymore... My roomate was in the room and heard too and told me about it. Apparently my friend didnt realize we werent friends anymore. I just feel like shes a real bitch to me now and I think about it every day. Im not so much into the going out all the time thing anymore now that I have a boy taking up my time...but it scares me because I feel like I might be drifting apart from my friends (esp. girls in the soro). But I really just want to be around him all the time...living in the Soro house with 40 girls is overwhelming...and yes the girl I was talking about earlier lives two doors down...we say hi to eachother and stuff but I mean everything is different. This was the girl who would call me at 3 am crying...my best friend just back not too long ago. We were so close this summer and did so much together...I just dont get it...idk what to do. I feel really bad she heard me talk crap..I guess I really am bitter because nothing happened (I asked her) and she just doesnt treat me the same...and she def doesnt treat me nicely. Like the one incident I remember when she picked me up from this guys house (said she wanted to hang out) only to bring me back to the house and go hang out with her "new friends"...maybe she now thinks shes too cool for me? I did confront her about it weeks ago and said all i needed to say...her explanation made no sense tho: she said that she just takes breaks from her best friends sometimes and hangs out with other ppl for a while...that just doesnt sound like something a friend would do...I guess I just need some advice...Im always worried that I dont have enough girls that im friends and close to in this soro..but i honestly just dont like all of them...something erks me. I just want to be around this boy all the time becuase that is when i am truley happy. Maybe I am falling in love ... idk but Im stressed so if I could just get any input on my situation it would be greately appreciated...Thanks
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