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all screwed up :( - December 27th 2010, 10:34 AM

Hi everyone..
Ive been dealing with the issue of having no friends in colg for the past two years. There's this big gang i hang out with when i'm there but the girls in it are pretty close to each other and i constantly feel left out. Its hols now nd i'm overcome by loneliness coz of the lack of friends. Wheneve i do try to keep in touch with these girls.. or msg them, they don exactly reciprocate in the right way. They're curt nd rude nd it hurts. I cried my heart out to my boyfriend this morning. I feel socially inadequate,i always have. I don get the chance to get out much nd even if i do i don know what to do alone. There aint any clubs i can join to make friends either. I cant change my group as my boyfriend has his friends here nd i gotta be with them for two more yrs. any advice on how to change this pathetic situation of mine?.. Any insight on y these girls are being so bitchy to me nd how to deal with the loneliness,boredom and frustration i'm facing? I wanna be more socially active,improve my self esteem nd get a life. Its hit rock bottom now. Any good advice would be appreciated,Thanks in advance.
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Re: all screwed up :( - December 29th 2010, 03:19 AM

Thats a tough situation to be in im really sorry to hear that. /:

Could you maybe try to hang out with your boyfriends, friends?

When those girls are mean to you just dont respond. They're not worth it, hun. You're better than that. Just ignore them, dont reply.

Theres no other club or anything you could join?

What about somthing outside of school like a recreational sport team or somthing?
Maybe you could meet friends there that dont even know that girl or your boyfriend or anyone that your usually hanging around.

Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to <3 Good Luck.
You can do it.(:

"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." <3

Feel free to PM/VM me if you ever need someone to talk to, or just want someone to listen. I'm also always up for making new friends.
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