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I don't know what to do anymore... - December 29th 2010, 11:39 PM

So, I broke up with my ex boyfriend back in April. At the time, I worried for his mental health because he had previous thoughts of suicide and was really shaken up about the break up so I told my mom to help me keep an eye on him.

The problem is, he and my mother have just gotten closer and closer since. I swear, she spends more time with him than me and I feel like shit because of that. I can't even remember the last time my mom and I just went out and did something, mother-daughter status, without my ex there.

I can't stand having him around, he has this whole "everything in the whole wide world must be about me" attitude and just doesn't care about other people's feelings. In general he's an okay guy, it's just his true colors come out when you spend as much time with him as I have.

I've told my mom multiple times that I don't like having him around this much. She's said each time that she'll try to be better, but she never is. I feel like she doesn't care anymore. I don't know what to do...

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Re: I don't know what to do anymore... - January 3rd 2011, 09:46 PM

I totally understand where you're coming from. It must be weird to have your ex around all the time! Especially taking up your moms attention! Your mom cares about you, so much so that she forgets to care. Its confusing, I know, but when you went to her the first time to ask for help with the suicide thing she went crazy with the attention thing. I don't know how your ex is with his mom, but maybe your mom is all he has.
Please please PM me if you need to talk. I'd love to help!
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