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Angry I always mess things up. - January 12th 2011, 03:19 AM

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I fucking always mess things up with my friends.
Today, I was talking to one of my friends on MSN and I said that I can't wait to go to a friends 18th, when I knew that he wasn't invited.
He wasn't really good friends with him anyway because they never really talked. He asked me when it was and I asked him if he was invited. He said no and asked me again when it was. I said that again that he wasn't invited. He said "And?" and I was like "Well no offence but because you're not invited why do you want to know?" He replied "Ok whatever". And blocked me on MSN. He then went on to delete and block me on Facebook. He came back on MSN and said "I was offended. Lol. So rude." And blocked me again.
I know this is stupid but I'm scared he might do something to himself because of me.
I ALWAYS no matter what mess things up when it comes to my friends. No wonder I don't have any.

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Re: I always mess things up. - January 12th 2011, 03:52 AM

Hi there.
First of all I just wanted to say that I would have done the same thing you did, I wouldn't give him the address of a party he wasn't invited to. It would only bring problems you did nothing wrong. But your friend did over-react by blocking you on Facebook and MSN and then hurting your feelings with what he said in the end. But in the end of the day you can’t make him unblock you from Facebook or MSN it’s up to him to realize he over-reacted and be a big boy and unblock you. I would let him cool off a little give him a couple of days abstract from talking to him after a couple of days go by try sending him a text to see how he is and take it from there.
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Re: I always mess things up. - January 12th 2011, 07:58 AM

Ah? Yeay! I'm a screw up too, lol. If saying that oen thing made him block you,t hen he's no use to you as a friend anyway because he's not truely loyal to you....Me...I've put my friend through hell and back and none of htem will leave me alone......ever....anyway. My point is that you should find real friends who will tell you that you fucked up and then let it go....pardon my cursing..it's a part of my speach pattern since i was in fifth grade... maybe we could talk some time over IM or something. Until then, keep on being you. ~_^
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