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why does everyone hate me so much? - January 13th 2011, 07:39 AM

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So today well techinically yesterday my mom and I got into a massive fight again and she kicked me out of the house. Like we both kinds hit each other and stuff it all started because she had to complaine about me not going to school and the reason why I don't go to school anymore is because I'm so upset all the time because she is allwaya putting me down and calling me names. ( would that be considered emotional abuse? Or any other kind of abuse) anyway its to the point now where I don't even want to get up in the morning because I'm so upset and even if I where to go to school, I'm to upset or there's to much on my mind for me to focus. Like I tryed really hard to try to talk to her even in the past few months and she never listens to me. She is allwaya talking over me telling me how much of a horrible daughter I am. Like am I really that much of a horrible person? Oh. Plus I have a dog. His name is willis and I absoutly love him. At this point he is the only reason why I don't kill myself at this point and so she took him somewhere and I don't know where and I'm really worried for his well being, he is just a puppie and I'm scared she is going to hurt him. I have seen her hit him before. I'm just so scared. Ok so back on about my mom. So I went back less then 2 hours after she kicked me out and her friend was allready over their changing the locks like I feel like she just absoutly gates me. Like I just turned 16 as in a few days ago as in on the 9. So right now I'm at my dads house. I have a brother and we don't get along. Like I wake up crying every morning because he blasts his music so loud I wake up because I have massive headaches. And ice tryed everything to get him to turn it down. And I allwaya get told that is the way he wakes up in the morning and this is his routine and you can't change it. But my routines I have, I can't do because he does not like it. Like wtf? Honestly? I just don't know what to do anymore. Maybe I should just like stand outside in the 3 feet of snow we have untill I freeze to death.


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Re: why does everyone hate me so much? - January 15th 2011, 12:00 AM

Freezing to death is not a solution hun.
Yes i will say your mom has some issues? She does sound like she's being emotionally abusisve/ verbally and physically to your dog. Did anything happen receently to trigger her behavior so harshley?
Your brother on the other hand, have you tried to talk to your dad about him? about your mom?
Try and compromise something with your brother.


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Re: why does everyone hate me so much? - January 15th 2011, 02:11 AM

This is serious. If it is as you say it is, this is one jacked up situation. Well, i think you should stay with your dad and seriously try to talk to your brother and ask him to just stop trying to make you angry. Chill out with your dad and ask for his advice too and see what he says also.


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Re: why does everyone hate me so much? - January 25th 2011, 01:20 PM

Sounds like your going through a tough time and Im sorry to hear that.
Giving up and killing yourself or freezing to death are both not solutions or how you should be thinking.
I went through a time where I wouldn't turn up to school and like you, I was kicked out of home. Luckily, my dad had a unit where I could live and since then I have been living there and resolved my issues.

It sounds like your Mum has some serious issues that she needs to realise and with you being gone, in time she will realise that she needs to resolve these. You not turning up to school probably came as a massive let down to her (as it did to my Mum) however she over-reacted and didn't try to find a solution which was completely wrong.

My best advice for you is to speak with your Dad, if you can hear him over your brothers music, tell him whats going on with school and why you are upset and don't want to attend. Let him know that you don't like waking up to your brothers music or call your Mum, if you are ready, and let her know what is going on inside with school and how you feel about the way shes treating you. Although this may not be clear to you, as she did kick you out, she does love you and she will want to work towards fixing both her issues and the problems you are having.

I really hope you can work this out because theres no point in being unhappy with life.
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