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Question Payback? Or just being childish? - March 19th 2011, 12:54 PM

Ok so in January one of my friends couldn't come to my 18th because she went out to dinner with her family about 45 minutes away even though I had sent out invitations in November.
Tonight it was HER 18th but because she didn't come to mine, I didn't go and went out to a crew outing with the people I work with at McDonalds. She's been a bitch to me lately and I don't like her that much anymore. I think the only reason why she invited me was because I invited her. But in saying that she didn't invite me last year to her party even though I had invited her and she just wanted more people to go this year. Last year she invited people she doesn't even talk too so it was kind of like inviting people for the sake of inviting them. So do you think it was payback what I was doing or just plain childish?


   
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Re: Payback? Or just being childish? - March 19th 2011, 05:57 PM

I think it was childish.
I am going through a similar situation with a friend of mine who is getting married in October of 2013. She asked me to be one of her bridesmaids, but a couple of days ago, she took it back to invite her Finace's cousin. I was contemplating not going to her wedding, even though I know it's two years from now, but thinking that is just plain childish.
You should have been the bigger person in the situation and went to her party to show her that it doesn't matter who gets invited. I'm going to go to my friends wedding, even though it's going to kill me that I'm not a part of her wedding party.
Be the bigger person and continue being friends with her. It's just going to tick her off more.











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