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I never called her irratating - January 9th 2009, 02:17 PM

I said (on bebo) to one of my friends(friend A) that another one of my friends (Friend B) keeps telling me that I'm perfect the way I am, and that it gets really irratating. Friend B read it and thought I ment that she was irrataing. I would never say that about her, she's as important to me as family, she's one of the only people that I feel I can really talk to. She's decided that She doesn't want to talk to me about my ED any more, I'll have to find someone else to talk to about it. And then she said that she was a shit friend and that there's no point trying to help me. She's got completely stressed out over it, and I personally can't see why. I'll post the message I left on Friend A's bebo, and if anyone can offer their opinion, it would be greatly appreciated.




Does Friend B keep going on about how 'you're perfect the way you are, you don't need to be thinner' to you, 'cos she keeps being like that to me and it's really irrating.

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Re: I never called her irratating - January 9th 2009, 06:00 PM

Hey, there! Well, personally, I probably would've gotten upset if I were your friend. Especially if she's trying to help you by telling you positive things, she might feel bad as if you don't appreciate what she's trying to do. And if one of my closest friends thought that something I was doing was irritating, I'd be a bit hurt.

You can either hope she forgives you soon... or apologize and hope she forgives you.

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Re: I never called her irratating - January 9th 2009, 06:05 PM

your friend is probably just upset because she was trying to help you and she feels like you're just throwing it back in her face, even though i know thats not what you're doing. that message doesn't come across as you saying she is irritating.. just saying that what shes saying is getting kinda annoying.
hmm. some people are really over sensitive so you gotta be careful. just apologise to your friend and explain that you didn't mean what she thinks you did. if shes gunna be that pathetic to not forgive you then she aint no friend of yours.


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Re: I never called her irratating - January 10th 2009, 07:20 AM

I explained what I ment to her, and said srry, and she said sorry for over-reacting, and it's all cleared up now


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Re: I never called her irratating - January 12th 2009, 03:42 PM

jessy has asked me to stalk her on TH so here i am.
she forgot to mention friends A & B are long-term friends.
i am carefully staying neutral in this, Fictional being my cousin and friend B is my six-year bestie (now my sig makes sense xD). but i would like to say that f.B not talking to jess about her ED is 100% unrelated to the issue in question.
just clearing a few things up to comfort my conscience. casual observers need not take heed as aforementioned issue is resolved.


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