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Car accident - April 2nd 2011, 02:16 AM

Today, I got the terrible news that my good friend D (we'll call her D) was in a terrible car accident. Luckily, she is ok. She's currently in the hospital under going tests to check for bleeding in her head (I'm hoping it's nothing serious.)

I'm feeling majorly guilty though, since just before her boyfriend told me, I had been talking to him about their relationship and how it's not going so well. I know it's NOT my fault at all, but I can't help feeling just a tad guilty about it, as he was talking about breaking up with her sometime after her birthday, which happens to be tomorrow.

I just feel super bad about it. I wish I could have gone to the hospital to see her but I couldn't because I have no vehicle, and I'm about twenty miles away from it at the current time.

UGH! Shitty stuff always happens to the best people. I just thought I'd share.











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Re: Car accident - April 2nd 2011, 01:15 PM

Awh love, I'm really sorry this happened to your friend. Please don't feel guilty, the conversation was obviously going to happen sometime and it was just bad luck that it happened to occur right before she had the accident!!I really hope she's ok. xxx


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Re: Car accident - April 2nd 2011, 01:55 PM

Your friend is in my prayers. I'm sure they are going to be just fine. It's natural to feel guilty.

When we say or do something we regret to someone who is sick, or is dying, we feel guilty. All you can do forgive yourself for it. Things happen unexpectedly sometimes. I'm really hoping that your friend gets through this. Stay strong.


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Re: Car accident - April 2nd 2011, 07:03 PM

Thanks everyone. Her boyfriend did update me last night, and thankfully nothing was broken. Phew. They had to do some testing to see if she had a bleed in her head, but that turned out negative as well. At some point this morning, I received a text saying that she was ok and that she was home now.

Thanks for the thoughts and the prayers for her. She's been a great friend to me, and I wish I could have done more to help her out! But, I still appreciate the feedback and prayers.











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Re: Car accident - April 3rd 2011, 06:01 PM

I am so glad that she is okay. :] That's good.
I would probably feel the same way that you are feeling; guilty.
It's super sad that he wants to break up with her. I'm sure she won't be happy about that.
She's looking at a rough healing process- physically and emotionally.
Just be there as a support for her when she needs it. And I am sure she will<3


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Re: Car accident - April 8th 2011, 09:35 PM

im sorry to hear about your friend D and she will be fine and covice them that they should stay with them and they should do more stuff mor move up to the next level or something im not to sure i know how you kinda feel coz my m8 and he gf are talking about leaveing eachouther and i always feel like i cause it and when ever i try to go out with someone it eather donesnt work out or my m8ts end up with her so i never get what i want and life is tough on me 24/7 just thought i would let you know your not the only one in that proision

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