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*CatchingStars* April 7th 2011 04:53 PM

i want her out
 
my mom has contacted me and i want her to stop i know she is back on her addictions AGAIN after she told me she stopped how am i suppse to trust her and i dont want to block her number cuz i do want her back but every time she contacts me i gointo a deep depresstion state and i was just working on getting out of that and she always finds a way to get to me and she hasnt stopped texing me for 2days and i want her to stop and one day i will let her in but when im stable enough to take the consequeces good or bad but any advice to get her to stop for now with out shutting her out forever:'(

PSY April 7th 2011 05:44 PM

Re: i want her out
 
Sometimes, we have to wait for when the time is right. I think you may be able to repair your relationship with your mom - just not right now. You said you experience depression when you talk to her, and you want to wait until you've become more stable. As much as you may not want to, I think you should block her number and/or change your cell phone number so she can't contact you. Yes, she is your mother, and yes, I understand that you want to fix things with her... but right now, you need to focus on yourself before you can focus on her. =)

Just Peachy. April 8th 2011 07:29 AM

Re: i want her out
 
Every person wants their mom, or a mom like figure. Sometimes that's harder to come by. You're wanting the relationship with your mom to be good. But right now it's just now stable and healthy for you to be talking to her. If she is bringing you into a depression, and into bad feelings then you shouldn't be contacting her. You need to wait for her to get clean and get her life together before you have a relationship with her again. That, or you wait until you are more stable emotionally. I completely agree with Robin, it might be in your best interest to block her number until things get better. No one can blame you for that. You're not weak for doing it. Blocking her number will show that you are strong. Think of it was you're being strong for yourself. You're doing this for your mental health. It's hard, but it will get better. Trust that it will<3

1yr1a April 8th 2011 09:53 PM

Re: i want her out
 
you can eather not read the texts, ask her to stop texting you, or change number and dont tell her for a little while and then talk to her when you are ready


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