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Unhappy Friends? - April 16th 2011, 10:39 PM

Lately, my so called "friends" have been bugging me. Apparently to them I am one of the "dumb blondes". I just got back from a week long trip to D.C. with my school and my friends. The whole trip they were making fun of me and saying that me voice sounded like a bee. I don't want to not be friends with them, most of them I have known for years. It seems like I am always the one who they pick on, leave out, etc. I have tried to mention that I have felt like this before, with no avail. I need help on what to do.


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Re: Friends? - April 16th 2011, 11:06 PM

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First of all, welcome to TH! My name is Lyndsee :]

I'm sorry that your friends are treating you like this. You definitely do not deserve to be treated like this. They probably act this way because you let it happen. They think that because you haven't said anything to them previously, that it's okay to continue on with their actions. You have to stand up for yourself. You don't have to be rude about it, but you need to be firm. That's the only way that they are going to understand how much it hurts you. Tell them how you feel when they treat you like that. I know it's hard to confront your friends, but they aren't going to stop on their own, otherwise they already would have. If they continue with the way they treat you, I would start to pull away from them. You really don't need the hurt. I know you don't want to stop being friends with them, but the decision is entirely up to you. I just know that if it were me, I wouldn't want to stick around to be pushed around. Stand your ground. Make your wants and wishes known. If they are true friends, they are going to reverse their actions and respect you and the things that you say.


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