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Unhappy Friend issues - April 18th 2011, 09:08 AM

Okay, I have this friend, she is such a nice person, at least she used to be. we havent been friends that long, but a few years ago, when I was going through a hard time she was really nice. recently she has been ignoring me 4 her boyfriend and im okay with that, as a result I got better friends with some other people. My friend then got really annoyed with me and said I was ignoring her and now she is like best friends with all my new friends. so now the only time she speaks to me is when she is upset that she has "ruined her life" 'cos the teachers saw her snogging her boyfreind. It makes me feeal really bad because she is incredibly smart, pretty + sporty and she makes me feel like cr p. Please help I'm just so fed up with her I dont know what to do.
   
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Re: Friend issues - April 18th 2011, 09:19 PM

Hey there,

It sounds like there are a lot of misunderstanding going on between you too. I'm glad that you found other friends to hang out with while she was dating her boy friend. I think you should have a talk with her. Lay it all out on the table. Tell her why you got new friends. Tell her that it only seems like she talks to you when she is upset. Give her a chance to explain. I don't think that you should feel like crap because of HER actions. She chose to kiss her boyfriend at school, and it's really not a big deal. Sure, she got in trouble, but it didn't ruin her life. She can bounce back from it. What about her makes you fed up with her? If you don't want to be friends with her, then I suggest you telling her that you don't want to and why. It's going to be awkward, but she deserves to know the truth.


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