HELP IM IN TROUBLE

[hypergirl]

my freind ill call her k nows secrets about me including who i like and lots more and im scared she will tell as i dont want 2 be her mate eny more should i be her mate or take my chances p.s she really embarassing

[JKmadu619]

First, why don't you want to be her friend? If she honestly isn't a good person fine, if it's to climb the social ladder I wouldn't blame her for telling every seceret or yours. If you just aren't close anymore, leave yourselves as distant friends, there is nothing wrong with that. You mentioned she "Embarassing" is that why you no longer want to be friends? I would be offended if I were your friend and you thought that about me. I would probably tell everyone.

In any case "Who you like" isn't a huge seceret. It's middle school, it'll pass eventually. I mean you could even deny everything she says, just because she says something is true doesn't mean anyone will believe her.

Think of the worst case scenario. She tell people things about you and they believe it. Then what? No one will smite you and you probably won't be tied to the flagpole and burnt.

- Justin

[hypergirl]

i only think of her as emmbarrasing because she emmbarased me infront of a group of my mates but it is not the reason i dont want 2 be her freind it is coz she is being really mean 2 me at the moment

[Unicorn ♥✿]

So she tells? Just proves she wasn't to be trusted really.
If she's beng nasty for no reason then maybe you should think about other friends. Just don't make it a horible ordeal for her when you decde not to be friends.

[hypergirl]

i told her tht coz she was being nasty 2 me so i dident want 2 be her mate know hoping he doesent tell and thanxs guys ur post really helped and justin urs made me lahe the wors senerio thing thanx again ppl

[Heartlines.]

Because the initial problem has been resolved, I'm going to close this thread.

@hypergirl, feel free to create a new thread if need or PM me so I can re open this if you wish. :]

But before I close this, I have something to add. I'm really glad that you decided to end things with your friend, as it didn't seem like she was being a friend to you really. Maybe you can talk to her and say "Hey, I know we're not friends, but it would be appreciated if you could not tell my secrets to people, and I won't do that to you."