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Unhappy i think my mom hates me !? - June 9th 2011, 02:30 PM

im new at this so i dont know if im doing this right. but ive come to a point where i think my mom hates me. things between us used to be so great, like everything was fine. and then all the sudden out of no where, im in trouble. she woke up pist off at me, i didnt even do anything. she accused me of using all of her money up, because she bought me a new fone, which was 179.99 and the bill was 60.00 she said i always use up her money, but when she bought it for me she wasnt mad or anything. she said i deserved it and i earned it. Whenever she buys me things i always say thank you and i tell her she doesnt have to buy me things but like i said , she tells me i earned it. but this morning when i woke up, she told me that i dont deserve this. and that i alwasy use her money she was going on and on making me feel like shit. please help me, i dont know what to do. i cant even talk to her anymore. someone please help me
   
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Re: i think my mom hates me !? - June 9th 2011, 09:46 PM

Hey there,

I'm sorry about what you're going through. It doesn't seem fair. Is this something that just started today? Maybe she is in a bad mood today. I'm sure that your mom loves you. You're at an age where relationships with parents can become strained due to the child starting to figure things out for themselves, and discovering who they are. Your relationship with your mom is bound to go through some up and some down points. What I would suggest is, talk to your mom. Tell her "Hey, I really appreciate the phone that you got me. I was under the impression that it was okay for me to have, but now I get the vibe that it isn't?" Say this after everyone have cooled off. Saying it now could cause an even bigger uproar, and could backfire. I also suggest that you say to your mom at one point "I really enjoy spending time with you and being close to you, but now I feel like we're drifting" Then suggest something that the two of you can do together so that you can reconnect.


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