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Unhappy Did i say anything wrong? - August 4th 2011, 07:48 PM

Well , Basicly i had a argument with one of my friends, And this girl chelsea who is suppost to be one of my mates, Doesnt put any "x" , And i tell her im upset and she dont do anything, and read the end of the convo.

Samantha [Edited]
My life is upside down right now tbh, i cant get annalices fucking number to sort stuff out, this happened with tallia and like i should make a effort to meet up wid all of you but i didnt and we dont speak attal much:/ and ok
did you get the inbox?x

about an hour agoChelsea [Edited]
no..?

about an hour agoSamantha [Edited]
Its too long
it wont send

about an hour agoChelsea [Edited]
kk
tallia said ur gonna go to lunch on sunday can i come?
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30 minutes agoSamantha [Edited]
Yeah
I was going to go with her first to make up then another day we all goto pictures x

15 minutes agoChelsea [Edited]
but tallia said she didnt mind if i came...

13 minutes agoSamantha [Edited]
ok then
x

12 minutes agoChelsea [Edited]
do you want me to come?

12 minutes agoSamantha [Edited]
yes, i don't mind x
I don't have a problem with you so don't think that xx

12 minutes agoChelsea [Edited]
wtff?

11 minutes agoSamantha [Edited]
omg what, i was only saying,, x

11 minutes agoChelsea [Edited]
dwwww


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Re: Did i say anything wrong? - August 4th 2011, 08:58 PM

No, I don't think you said anything wrong. She sounds a bit insecure, and maybe she thinks you don't want her to come. Just reassure her that you love spending time with her, and you didn't mean it to sound as though you didn't want her there.
And I wouldn't worry about the 'x' thing. Some people put them, some peope don't. She probably doesn't mean anything by it.
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Re: Did i say anything wrong? - August 4th 2011, 09:57 PM

Reading that reminds me why I dislike texting over the phone but that's not the topic.

I'm not understanding the importance of putting an, "x", so I cant answer the issue of Chelsea not using one. To me it seems an unnecessary thing that's meant to be cute.

When one says to another, "I don't have a problem with you, don't think that", it may put one on edge because they ask themselves why you even mentioned it. That said, I don't think you said anything wrong at all, I think Chelsea's responses indicate she does like you as a friend. It shouldn't be anything she holds as a grudge against you, although if she does, that's not your fault. If I were you and she asked for an apology, I wouldn't give one because there's nothing you did wrong no matter what she thinks.


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Re: Did i say anything wrong? - August 4th 2011, 10:30 PM

why should she say sorry?


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Re: Did i say anything wrong? - August 5th 2011, 12:37 AM

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why should she say sorry?
What he meant to say is that if your friend asks YOU to apologize to HER, then you shouldn't have to give her an apology, as you did nothing wrong.





   
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Re: Did i say anything wrong? - August 5th 2011, 12:53 AM

Ok, Thankyou x


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Re: Did i say anything wrong? - August 8th 2011, 06:31 PM

Hey there,

I don't think you said anything wrong. To me it sounded like you were just trying to set things straight and include her. There was no reason for her to get mad like that. I would talk to her in a day or two and ask her why she got mad. It could just be a misunderstanding. But either way, you did nothing wrong. <3


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