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I need help telling my mom - August 10th 2011, 08:06 PM

On night I was staying at my aunts house and I had to sleep in the same bed as my mom. She thought I was sleeping and she masturbated while I was awake. It really grossed me out and I was honestly hurt that she would do that while I was with her. I let the room and slept on the couch. I was mad and ignoring her the next day, every time I saw her I just thought of that. I thought she had gotten the hint. But last week we stayed in a motel and I couldn't sleep, so I had a light on because I was reading and she did it! I don't know what to do or if I should say something to her. I know this is a different type of situation. I've never heard of this happing to anyone before and I don't feel comfortable taking to my friends about it. That is why I found this site. If you guys have any related situations or help/advice, I would really appreciate it.
   
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Re: I need help telling my mom - August 10th 2011, 08:39 PM

What your mom did to you was very disrespectful. Having the audacity to masterbate in the same bed as her child. You have every right to feel uncomfortable and violated. The result of her doing that in your presence resulted in you ignoring her. If I were you, I would talk to her. She needs to know how uncomfortable you felt in that situation. If I were you I would say something along the lines of "the other night, when we were at my aunts house, I felt very uncomfortable when we were laying in bed and you were masterbating. Out of respect and decency to me, I would appreciate if you could avoid doing such things around me in the future". The conversation will be awkward, but it needs to happen. You deserve to feel comfortable. My mom used to have sex with her husband right above me, and I told her how uncomfortable it made me. Finally she stopped, so hopefully your mom will do the same.


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