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Unhappy Im not any speciall - September 12th 2011, 07:45 PM

I have the best friends! I love them! but sometimes it feels like they would be better of without me and like I'm not any speciall, I feel like a nobody and like a person that always comes second... Im just a little lonley, plz answer me and give me advise..

sry for bad english, Im a 15 years old girl from finland.


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Re: Im not any speciall - September 13th 2011, 03:58 AM

hey im sorry you are feeling this way. But your friends are not better off without you. they would be very sad if something happened to you. Your life is very precious. Feel free to talk to me anytime

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Re: Im not any speciall - September 13th 2011, 04:24 PM

Hey Sandra, welcome to TH. I'm sorry you feel that way. It isn't true, I'm sure you mean as much to your friends as they mean to you and they wouldn't want you to feel that way. Everyone is special.

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Re: Im not any speciall - September 14th 2011, 09:17 PM

What's making you feel like you come second? Any particular reason? Your friends are friends with you because they care about you, and WANT you to be their friend. Perhaps the reason why you feel this way has nothing to do with your friends', but everything to do with you? I don't feel like I have the full story, so I'm just throwing out guesses. If you feel your friends don't care about you, talk to them. Tell them what you're feeling. Things can't change unless you make the change yourself.

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