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Unhappy Can somebody please tell me what to do? - September 22nd 2011, 03:06 AM

I switched schools a year ago and made a few good friends. I decided to play up my life a bit to these people (which i am never going to do again.) and I showed her pictures of some of the popular kids (whom i had a crush on) on facebook in my old school and claimed them to be my best friends.
I was never afraid of anything happening mostly because she didn't have facebook. But she told me that one of them was really hot and that was about 7 months ago. She now has a facebook and has been messaging them, most of the messages involved me.
She is probabaly one of the most hated people in school (i didn't know any better.) she spreads rumors, swears, etc.
Now I don't know what do do. I don't talk to her anymore, because i don't want to become involed with any drama, nor do i talk to the popular kids whom i lied about. I really like one of them.
What should I do?
   
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Re: Can somebody please tell me what to do? - September 22nd 2011, 02:45 PM

I think you already have found the solution. You distanced yourself from her. You learnt from your mistake.



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Re: Can somebody please tell me what to do? - September 22nd 2011, 06:39 PM

If you wanted to make friends with her again, you could always say sorry and explain why you did it?
   
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Re: Can somebody please tell me what to do? - September 23rd 2011, 09:35 PM

EIL, I don't think the OP is the problem. And I don't think she did anything wrong... so why should she apologize?

I think you know what to do. Don't be friends with her if you don't want to be in the drama. I think it sounds like a good plan to withdraw yourself from the drama. Distancing yourself doesn't have to be a big scene. You don't have to stop talking to her. Just don't get close to her. If she asks, tell her why you're distancing yourself from her. High school life is much easier without the drama.

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