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Angry FUCKING FAMILY *really angry* - January 10th 2009, 12:18 PM

my god damn family want to move at the end of the year but i dont want to leave my friends and band!

i know if we move somewhere new im not going to be able to make new friends cause im terrible at making friends

my life was just getting sorted out and another problem comes along

i just feel like ending it all i cant be fucked with this stupid fucking life anymore seriously fuck it nothing goes right and it never will!
   
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Re: FUCKING FAMILY *really angry* - January 10th 2009, 03:10 PM

Are they definitely moving or just thinking about it? If its not all decided then try and talk tot hem. I'm sure you've already done this, but I mean in a sitting down and discussing sort of way. I would probably scream and shout, but I think if you calmly explain to them how important it is to you that you stay where you are, they will hopefully respect that and take it into account when making their decision. All the best x
   
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Re: FUCKING FAMILY *really angry* - January 10th 2009, 03:11 PM

Moving is really hard, I know I've moved a bunch of times. I'm not very good at making friends either, I'm like really shy, but if your parents want to move and you live with them, I don't think there's much you can do.
Leaving all of your friends is like the worst feeling in the world, but there's always e-mail, AIM/MSN or w/e, cell phones and texting and stuff.
You don't have to completely lose contact with your friends, you can stay in contact. But the best thing I can say to do is to just go with the flow. Let everything sort itself out if you can.


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Re: FUCKING FAMILY *really angry* - January 11th 2009, 09:34 AM

Are you moving for sure, or are your parents just thinking about it? Where they want to move, how far is it from where you currently live? Would it be possible to visit your friends and band mates on the weekends?

Try talking to them camly and at a time when they dont have 50 other things going on, and tell them what you think about moving, and what you feel like might happen if you do move. When talking to them, try to understand why they want to move, it woulnt be fair if they listened to you, but you ignored them. Respect can get you farther then you think.

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Re: FUCKING FAMILY *really angry* - January 11th 2009, 09:39 AM

Thank you for all your feedback guys

the problem was sorted out i spoke to them, originally we were gonna move an hour away

but now we are moving to the same place as my college which is 15 minutes from where i currently live and is 25 minutes away from my band but a bus directly goes to there houses from the new place so it looks like its all working out

thanks for the support everyone, and sorry about me being angry :\
   
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Re: FUCKING FAMILY *really angry* - January 11th 2009, 11:37 AM

Thats good that you've gotten everything sorted out. And you can still be close to your friends and band.

And dont worry about being angry, you were upset, it happens.


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Re: FUCKING FAMILY *really angry* - January 11th 2009, 01:09 PM

I'm glad you've got it sorted. But making new friends is a good skill to have..xxx


   
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