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don't you hate this? - December 10th 2011, 04:35 AM

So my girlfriend is friends with this person I have certain mood swings about. First I like her as a friend, but there are days when I wanna ripe her head off. Tonight is one of those nights and the reason why is because she always tells me how I feel; here is an example 'oh please your so pissed right now!' 'Umm no I am not I just have no idea or do not care what your talking about.' And oh my god I felt I wanted to do it again when she did this when we where talking about transferring colleges and how I will not be living with my girlfriend 24/7 and how we will try to hang out with different people, and she was all like 'Well I bet you won't even attempt to and you tried here and it did not work.' So what you want me to disappear from the room where my girlfriend spends like most of her time sleeping and how the hell should I spend less time with her? Like we do not see each other in class, she works and sleeps thats about it, we do nothing else other than eat so we probably spend less time together. This sent me on the edge though the most, my girlfriend and I spilt meals and there is really nothing we can do about that because I have no job and I tried but it did not work out, my parents are not loaded nor will ever be loaded, and she is just pissed because my girlfriend will not eat with her in this kind of buffet place because they will not let me in after one meal swipe for her. Its like yeah we get it and Ash cares a lot, but she does not want me starving to death or feeling left out so she said, 'i bet you could have asked your parents for help you just did not want to.' and than I told her 'Umm my mom works at a department store and my step dad works as a recreation leader how much do you think they make?' They also have bills, expenses, and two adult children to take care of.

I can't wait to move, and the less I hear her annoying voice the better it will be. There is some nice moments, but they are so far apart it seems like she does it to keep me from complaining. Do you guys have someone who tries to act like she is above the rest and can your mind even though you know each other for like a year? Well?
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Re: don't you hate this? - December 12th 2011, 12:43 AM

Yes I have had similar people say things like this to me. I think that you should say something to her, Tell her that you simply don't like the way she gets involved in your relationship, and you don't like the way she treat you. She will get the point. Other than saying something to her, there really isn't to much you can do in this situation but deal with it -which would drive me crazy as well.

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Re: don't you hate this? - December 16th 2011, 12:03 AM

Ugh no i just need to vent for a while about this and other than maybe my g/f inviting her over every now and than I will never see her.
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Re: don't you hate this? - December 17th 2011, 02:22 AM

If you ever need to talk or vent you can always Private message me.

I hope that this situation gets better.

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