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Friends.. - January 24th 2012, 12:33 AM

I don't know why this keeps happening to me.. I used to have a lot of friends. Online, at school, everywhere. I moved and not many of my friends from Ohio want to keep in contact with me anymore. And Ive seemed to have lost all my online friends and whenever I try to talk to someone they ignore me...
I feel like I'm not even.....visible to people.. no one talks to me, interacts with me, trys to be friends with me...
It makes me sad because I just...sign on to the internet because when I'm not working... I dont have anything to do until school starts.. and when I sign onto the internet, theres nothing for me to do because....no one likes me....
Am I really that repulsive that no one wants to be around me?
I mean...I guess...I can agree when i don't even want to be around myself..
I hate me..
I'm sorry for the rant...I guess it was kinda pointless because no one is going to respond anyway....





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Re: Friends.. - January 24th 2012, 12:39 AM

Oh dude=( I am SO sorry=( You aren't repulsive dude! No! I don't know why people aren't responding or talking to you. There's no reason not to. You've im sure given them no reason not to. I've seen some of your replies and they are really sweet. And you know what, i'll gladly be your friend. If nobodies gonna talk to you, hell talk to me. Im kinda lonely too. I have friends both online and offline but really the only friend I talk to on regular basis online is my best friend and she isn't allowed to be on a lot=( But you know, if you ever want to talk to anybody, Im def. here. I dont understand why your other friends aren't talking to you. Maybe some of them are busy right now or something. How long has it been since you moved? Or talked to them? Anyways, don't hate yourself and you didn't rant. Its perfectly alright. Just from your other posts, I think you're a wonderful person=) Anyone would be happy to be your friend.


   
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Re: Friends.. - January 24th 2012, 10:25 PM

I have also been in similar positions. I think we all have those few weeks (or for some few months/years) when we get down because we feel we don't have friends, or we are cut out of our groups. It sucks.

You really have two options here:

1) Keep doing what your doing and not changing.

2) Change - be more socially active. Sitting at home, on the computer does NOT count as socially active. Get out, join groups, hangout with old friends, put yourself out there. If you sit home, and don't really do anything then you of course will not have many friends. Start chilling with co workers, go out for dinner, just be more socially active.

Now if you still want a online friend life - then thats fine. Join chatrooms, get involved more on Facebook or other sites. You cant expect people to come to you and 'want' to be you friend. You have to put yourself out there and try as well.

The only main thing that can improve this problem is just being more socially active. If you need more tips - or steps, feel free to PM me.



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