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No one seems to like me.. - February 19th 2012, 08:20 PM

I have my friends, but outsiders seem to dislike me. Like my best friend's friends, well some of them, say they dislike me. But they don't really know me. This is not the first time, I am like THE kindest person ever, I am really fun and stuff, so I don't see why they dislike me.

I don't think I come across as a bad person, I'm shy though. But I don't get why that'd mean they dislike me, it just means I am not 100% comfortable with them yet. It's kinda depressing knowing so many people dislike you for like.. no reason.



It's kinda getting to me now.



   
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Re: No one seems to like me.. - February 19th 2012, 09:38 PM

How do you know they dislike you - do they tell you this? I think you are assuming that they don't because they don't talk to you - well you yourself said that your very shy. Personally if someone doesn't put effort into talking to me, I ignore them and don't even act like they are there. Is this what they are doing to you?

It doesn't mean they don't dislike you, it may just be that they don't know you, and they aren't comfortable with talking to you. You have two kinds of speakers: those who are shy & don't start convos, and those who start convos. If you put two people who are not willing to stand up and start a convo - then you have a lack of communication and it may seem like they dislike you. I cant get inside there head and tell you if they do/don't like you - but I recommend being more socially active and start talking alot more. Maybe even build up your confidence levels more.



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Re: No one seems to like me.. - February 20th 2012, 06:33 PM

Chris summed it up pretty accurately.
Considering you are particularly shy, it will definitely be more difficult for you to make friends. Also, if you are super shy- the type of person who doesn't usually have much to say- these people could be making the assumption you are full of yourself, OR just feel that you aren't comfortable with being around. Either option generally turns people off of speaking to you.

My best advice to you is to try and open up to people a little bit. Let them see that you are an incredibly kind person. Also, unfortunately, people are rather judgmental. If you have an edgy, or simply different appearance, people are more likely to assume things.
But regardless, show them who you really are.
I wish you luck!




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