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Angry get rid of the friend - February 24th 2012, 08:10 PM

My friend is a liar and he makes up stories and everything has to do with him.he lies about me and got me into trouble with another one of my friends by running his mouth.i want to stop being his friend but without me he has no one else to talk to or eat lunch with.i dont know what to do so that his life isnt horrible but he is making mine really bad.
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Re: get rid of the friend - February 24th 2012, 08:24 PM

Communicate.

I think you need to give him one more chance: I think you need to tell him just what you told us - that he is making certain things in your life bad. You need to be honest and tell him that if he continues to mess things up and make mis-communications happen between you and other people that you can no longer talk to him. If after you talk to him he keeps doing it - then you should just tell him you are done, and at that point you already gave him a warning, and he still chose to cause issues; so its his loss.



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Re: get rid of the friend - February 27th 2012, 08:09 PM

thanks for the advice.I talked to him and he still insists on being this way so i think we are done.Maybe he will change.until then i guess its going to stay this way.
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Re: get rid of the friend - February 27th 2012, 08:57 PM

I think that a break is defiantly necessary in this situation - maybe for a temporary time, or maybe permanent - nonetheless, don't worry to much about it. Just do what you need to do to be happy, and not be around negative people that cause issues, or make your life bad (like this friend).


I am going to close this thread since you seem to know what needs to be done. However, If you would like this thread re-opened, feel free to PM myself or PSY, or just create a new thread!


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