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*shrugs* - March 29th 2012, 01:48 AM

so ive been IMing this guy on FB for awhile and he's become a pretty good friend, but here lately we havent talked all that much and ive been afraid to message him first bc i dont want to seem like a pest, well like 3 weeks went by and we hadnt talked at all, i finally caught him online and preceded to have a conversation. He replied with one word sentences and left me hanging and struggling to find things to talk about....does he not want to talk to me anymore? or am i just being stupid?
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Re: *shrugs* - March 29th 2012, 02:57 AM

Unfortunately I cant tell you what his intentions are. However, if he isn't contacting you first, and you always have to contact him, and then he gives no effort into the conversation; then its apparent that he either no longer wants a friendship with you, or you guys have simply grown apart (which can happen pretty fast).

I think your best bet is to move on. If he contacts you in the future, then you decide if you would like to respond back - however don't put your effort and time into someone who wont give it back. So your best bet is to move on, and don't contact him. See where things go.

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Re: *shrugs* - March 29th 2012, 03:19 AM

ouch, but thanks chris
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Re: *shrugs* - March 29th 2012, 07:39 AM

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does he not want to talk to me anymore? or am i just being stupid?
Hi Cassady. You'll never know unless you ask him and find out.

I think anything could be possible. Yes, there are guys who show disinterests in having conversations with someone by replying with just a word or two. Or it could be that he's just really busy at the moment or maybe he's out of conversation materials to talk with you or he's having problem at the moment and don't feel like talking, well anything is possible and we really don't know what's in his mind.

But since you said that both of you are somehow pretty much good friends, I think there's nothing wrong about asking what he is up to lately and tell him that you miss talking with him sometimes? After all that's what good friends do - communicate.

But then if he's giving you negative responses then I think that's the sign that he needs some space and you shouldn't expect much more from him. I personally think that you better find out now rather than keep on wondering yourself, assuming things and not knowing what happen to both of you. Good luck!

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