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Death, Grieving and Coping With Loss Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Unhappy I had a miscarriage - May 11th 2014, 07:53 PM

I had a miss carriage on April 8th. I lost my deceased boyfriend baby. I feel horrible. I do not know what to do. I do not want to be here anymore. I feel like a failure. I just really need someone to talk to....
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Re: I had a miscarriage - May 11th 2014, 11:03 PM

Hey there,

I know how it feels to have a miscarriage. I've suffered from two miscarriages, and to this day I feel horrible about it. However, it's been a few years and it DOES get easier.

You're NOT a failure. Things like this happen all the time. I'm not going to tell you it wasn't meant to be to be a parent or any of that because it won't make you feel any better. I will tell you, though, that with the right coping skills you can get through this. I did things to memorialize my babies. I wrote letters to them expressing my sorrow, I have figurine angels for them, and I always visit a specific river and send a prayer to them. There are a lot of things you could do, those are just some ideas.

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk. I'd love to help. <3

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Re: I had a miscarriage - May 18th 2014, 10:42 PM

Hey, there.

Words can't express how sorry I am to hear about your situation. I've never had to deal with this first hand, but my sister has had several miscarriages and I know it's unimaginable heartbreak.

Brittany made some great suggestions for you. In addition to what she said, I encourage you to seek some sort of professional help to guide you through the grieving process and to get you on a track of remembrance and perseverance. "Professional help" can come in the form of counselors, social workers, professors of psychology and/or social work, etc. Talking to someone who is very knowledgeable in the situation you're currently dealing with can provide unthinkable positive outcomes.

I wish you and all those effected the very best during this tragic situation.

Best wishes,

I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, the most beautiful purest love in the world. Not only to be loved by others, but to be loved by yourself. To look in the mirror and think "Yes, I'm exactly who I want to be". To speak up and be proud of yourself. To be brave and open. You deserve the nicest and most caring people to walk into your life. You deserve it all, you know. The whole world...
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