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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:10 PM

About 6 months ago i lost a best friend who was more like a brother to me. He ment the world to me. He was always there for me. He was like the brother i never had. But now he is gone from suicide. Luis i miss you so so much. why did you have to leave me? I am so lost without you i mean i cant do many things anymore cause we used to do them together. I miss you so much i dont know what to do


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:19 PM

Jen, it will be okay, I am so sorry for your loss. Don't be sad, he wouldn't want you to be, he would want you to still do those things. Don't stop doing them because he is gone, do them to remember the times you two did them together, he would want that, he wouldn't want you to be unhappy.

Feel better soon, remember the good times you had with him, the laughs, those things you did together, all the wonderful moments you two had as friends.
   
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:21 PM

i just miss him so much an i still cant belive hes gone


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:26 PM

Jen, I'm so so sorry that you are experiencing this pain
Think about all the fun times and happy memories you have of your friend, he would want you to be happy.
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:27 PM

i just can not think of them cause then i will be even more sad


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:30 PM

If you avoid it, it will only get worse. It will build up and you won't grieve, it's okay to cry, and it's okay to be sad. Sooner you realize he is gone and you grieve it will get a little easier. Don't just not think about him cause it will upset you, you need to get all of it out in the open, it is okay to be upset, you lost a friend.
   
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:31 PM

He was like a brother to me i mean i never wanna loose a brother. at all but i might have to again one day i guess i just have to face the fact he is gone


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:32 PM

Facing that he is gone, means you will grieve then yes. It will get easier,
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:34 PM

thanks i want to try to forget but i cant


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:36 PM

Don't try to forget, it won't help you. You can not just forget someone Jen, you need to think about this you need to grieve and cry. Not just shut it out like it never happen, like you never knew him, it won't work, it might for a little while but it will come crashing down on you sooner or later and it won't be good. It's easier to deal with it right away then to leave it build up and up and get worse.
   
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:37 PM

well both my parents have told me to forget about him cause they say he wasnt a good friend


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:49 PM

Jen I'm So So So So Sorry you lost him. Its such a hard thing to lose someone so Close. Im really sorry for you, Jen. And i'm here for you if you need my help, okay? Just overcome it. You can do this.


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 17th 2013, 06:52 PM

i dont wanna go on without him


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 18th 2013, 09:11 PM

You don't have too, you still have memories, pictures, it will be okay. You might not have him there with you, but you have his watching over you.
   
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 19th 2013, 08:10 AM

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Grieving is a very hard thing to go through and I know that first hand. The key too it all: Time. Here is an article that has helped me in the past, and I know it has helped others aswell: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f85-d...y-faces-grief/

Keep your head up, keep that smile shining bright, and push through these rough times; you'll be glad you did!

Take care of yourself.



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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 20th 2013, 01:15 AM

thanks chris. i am going to read that and ill see it


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 20th 2013, 10:39 AM

It's hard to lose someone you were close to. I lost my best friend too a couple of days ago so I know how it feels.
Remember the good times, and it will get easier in time. It's hard but we all get there in the end
As for your parents telling you to forget him...they have no right to say that, it seems he was a really good to you, especially to be like a brother to you.
Let yourself grieve and things will get easier and so will the pain
He will always be with you through memories, photographs etc.
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 20th 2013, 02:26 PM

im sorry for your loss. i want to remeber him but i feel like i cant


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 21st 2013, 09:09 PM

You can, it's hard at first, but you'll get there and it will be okay!
   
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 21st 2013, 09:15 PM

Death is such a hard thing to deal with especially if we lose someone close to us. We have to make a place for them in our hearts and then we must find the strength to move on. Although your friend can't be physically with you anymore, he will always be in your heart and your mind as you will always be in his.


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 23rd 2013, 12:37 AM

Im so sorry for your loss <333 I understand your pain, I learned in the process of grieving that you should never hold back any feelings. If you feel like crying , then cry . If you hold back your feelings your never going to move forward , if you ever need anyone to talk to just Pm me <3333


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 23rd 2013, 03:58 PM

thanks everyone. i think he is in a better place now though


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 23rd 2013, 05:55 PM

That's always good to hear Jen, he is very much in a better place.
   
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 24th 2013, 10:51 AM

i know he is i just wish i could of helped him


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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 24th 2013, 11:41 AM

You can't help everyone, something's you just don't know which make it harder. I'd never see the signs if it was my friend.
   
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 24th 2013, 08:36 PM

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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 30th 2013, 03:32 PM

I'm really sorry to hear about your friend. Death is such a hard thing to cope with. Just when you feel you are okay, something triggers the memories and you feel the same pain all over again...memories will naturally haunt you of the time spent together, feelings shared and all that. But slowly and surely, you will come across other people and indulge in activities that would take your mind off of this loss. Time is still the best healer...give yourself some more time and you will have the will to move on...explore new friendships/relationships...nobody remains stuck in one groove forever...that's the law of nature!
   
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Re: i lost the best thing ever - July 30th 2013, 03:40 PM

I'm really sorry to hear about this Jen. Death is hard to deal with but trust me in time it does get easier. Think of all the happy memories you both shared, let your feelings out about it all as bottling them up doesn't help anyone. I'm always here if you want to talk, take care.






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