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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Our friend. - July 23rd 2018, 01:41 AM

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A friend of the family passed away today, she had cancer. They said too much to help her. I was hoping for her to make it long, but she didn't. I'm tired of losing people to this and just passing away and leaving me forever. She was so nice and friendly and she always handed out Halloween candy to all of us. I don't know how much more I can take. I hate everything right now. I want to cry, scream and push myself away from everyone.


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Re: Our friend. - July 23rd 2018, 09:59 PM

I'm sorry to hear about your family friend. She sounds like she meant a lot to you, and it must be devastating for you and your family. I'm also sorry to hear that you keep losing people. It's okay to cry, get upset and angry about this. And while it's okay to spend some time by yourself to grieve, it might also help to spend time with your family as you can share memories and feelings with each other.

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Re: Our friend. - July 24th 2018, 01:19 AM

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Re: Our friend. - July 24th 2018, 05:48 PM

I'm very sorry to hear this happened. Thinking of you, and I want you to remember that each and every one of us will always, always have your back.

You're a blessing.. and you always will be. That family friend of yours probably thinks the same way, too!


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Re: Our friend. - July 25th 2018, 01:18 PM

I'm sorry about this. Hope you will be okay soon. Hugs for you.
   
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Re: Our friend. - July 25th 2018, 02:03 PM

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Re: Our friend. - July 30th 2018, 05:34 AM

Hey Emmie,

I'm really sorry to hear this. I know you've been through a lot and losing someone else you held dear can't be easy. If you want to cry or scream or be by yourself for a while, that's totally okay. Whatever you need to do to get through this is perfectly fine (as long as it's not hurting anyone, yourself included). Sometimes you just have to feel whatever you're feeling before you can start to feel better, you know?

I hope your pain eases up a bit soon, and please feel free to get in touch if you ever want to rant or anything.


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Re: Our friend. - July 30th 2018, 08:16 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend passing away, and especially so from an illness such as cancer. If you need to take time for yourself, scream, punch a pillow, kick a soft non-living surface such as a couch, then feel free to do so. It is perfectly fine to be upset and angry. But please remember to take care of yourself as well. You are just as important, and I'm sure this individual would have said the same thing as well. <3
   
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Re: Our friend. - July 31st 2018, 01:07 AM

Thank you. I really appreciate everyone's reply and help.


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