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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Unhappy Cant get over my Grandads passing..... - March 31st 2010, 06:32 PM

When is the grieving process supposed to stop?

Why do I cry myself to sleep thinking of him?

Why have I started crying now?


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Re: Cant get over my Grandads passing..... - April 1st 2010, 07:43 PM

It's normal, I'm the same, but you should know he's at his safest place, he's not in pain, he wouldn't want you like that. Try to think positive.

The process depends on the feelings and the attachment between you and him. You've started crying again because you know inside that you won't get him back but thing is that's life.

I'm the same and it will take a while. Try to stay positive.
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Re: Cant get over my Grandads passing..... - April 1st 2010, 07:55 PM

Thank you.

Im starting bereavement counselling very shortly. That should help.


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Re: Cant get over my Grandads passing..... - April 2nd 2010, 06:37 PM

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Re: Cant get over my Grandads passing..... - April 2nd 2010, 09:49 PM

Hey Jaymi,

I'm really sorry to hear about your grandad.

Different people Grieve for different lengths of time and over that time your feelings may change. It sounds at the moment like you're struggling and are really upset but over time these feelings may become less intense but when that happens is up to you and there is no right or wrong time to start to feel happier.

I think it's great that you are starting counselling shortly because it can really help you to sort through your emotions and understand why you are feeling like you are. It's important that you don't bottle things up and that you have someone you can go to if you need to talk.

I hope you feel better soon and if you need to talk to me you can PM me anytime

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