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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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Exclamation I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 17th 2010, 11:47 PM

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Hey Everyone!
I'm Sabreena my nana *grandmother* died in Aug. this year she was in the ICU section of the hospital at one of the worst hospitals!

I really want her back!!I also have problems ( my weight, no friends etc.)
I want to be with her and I'm horrible at p.e.!
Today I cried in the bathroom during p.e. because everyone was yelling at me and right then at that very moment I just wanted to cut myself *or do some selfharm* and then kill myself!!! I've never really thought about REALLY doing that before but hey no one would miss me, I don't have any friends!!
I never have cut myself or done anything like that... But life is getting too hard for me!

Plus I go to a Christian school so if I ever talked to anyone about this type of stuff I would get in SO!! much trouble!

Please Help me!

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Re: I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 18th 2010, 05:51 PM

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Re: I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 18th 2010, 07:43 PM

First of all, I am so sorry for your loss I understand that things may be difficult for you at the moment, I remember feeling like this when my nan died. And it's not unnusual to want to be with her. That time will come, just not right now as you're not ready for that yet. You're still young and still have the rest of your life to live! Please DON'T cut. You see thread after thread on this site from people who would do anything to stop cutting, so don't give in to this. There are so many other options to deal with you grief. Also, you should try approaching more people at school and starting conversations with them, and you may find that you have lots in common with the people at your school Don't give up yet!! Although you can't talk to anyone in your school about these feelings, could you maybe try to talk to a family member about it?

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Re: I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 18th 2010, 08:25 PM

Hi Saphire,
Thanks for the comment!
Thanks and im very sorry for your loss as well!
I know I shouldn't WANT to die but hey why not..I WILL NEVER EVER GO THROUGH WITH THIS THOUGH!! I'M A WIMP( it's a good thing here)!!

Cutting>>>
I did a few more today but I think I'll stop!! =)

Friends...
I mean people talk to me but i'm diffrent than them..=(
Good idea about talking to them I talk to this one girl and we have alot in common and I said" hey we should have a sleepover!!!" and her dad is in the Army so she said she didn't think they would live there( here in Florida) for a long time so that blew threw! UGHH!

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Re: I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 19th 2010, 08:38 AM

Oh , sweetie , this hurts so bad I know , but try to imagne nana in heaven and how happy she'll be there.


   
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Re: I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 20th 2010, 03:29 AM

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Thanks! I know I see her walking on golden bricked roads and talking with God and my Uncle!!!
Not to mention her other 9 brothers and sisters! LOL

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Re: I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 22nd 2010, 12:41 AM

I know its hard to lose a loved one Sabreena. She's watching over you though, and I'm sure she doesn't want to see you like this. Grieving is hard, do you have someone that you can talk to? Normally its easier when you have someone to lean onto. Stay strong <3


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Re: I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 23rd 2010, 03:08 PM

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Thanks! I know I see her walking on golden bricked roads and talking with God and my Uncle!!!
Not to mention her other 9 brothers and sisters! LOL

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Yeah , keep that up WOW big family! LOL If you don't mind , i'll PM you a joke


   
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Re: I miss my nana and I want to be with her!!! - November 24th 2010, 01:03 AM

Brittany,
Thanks and no not really my mom is very sadden by this as well.....

Smiley (:
Yeah very big family...one of our cousins was one of 16!!!!


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