R.I.P uncle even though i never knew you....

[honeycake]

so i've recently got in touch with my half sisters and biological father and i heard from my mam's friend that my biological dad's brother who was called peter killed himself a few year back. So i asked my one of my sister's about it and she said it was true. He jumped off a bridge somewhere, my sister says she doesn't know why he did it but my mam said it was because of his love life and he regretted breaking up with his ex for an older woman and my mam thinks when he left the older woman to get his ex back she wouldn't have him so he had nothing else to live for. I wanted to meet him too, he got to meet me when i was first born but that was it, i also have a cousin but i don't think he knows what really happened.

i'm greiving over someone who i can't remember

[Saphire]

I'm so sorry to hear this Don't worry it's perfectly normal to be grieving over your Uncle. Even if you never knew him he was a part of your family.

I hope you're ok xx

[*Jen*]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can kind of relate to how you are feeling because I lost someone very close to me when I was young and I don't have any memories of her. But I still miss her greatly and not having those memories makes me feel the loss even more. I kind of think it is harder when you don't have those memories to comfort you during the times where you are feeling really low. It is really difficult but I guess you have to try to talk to people who were close to him and find out things about him that way.

I am always here if you want to chat! Stay strong