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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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it's almost like he's dead - March 31st 2011, 07:06 PM

He might as well be dead for all the good he does me...
He was a good friend, there to support me, kind of that shoulder to lean on. He moved on to high school this year, and left me behind in 8th grade, so I've only seen twice in the last 7 months. I seriously miss him, wish I could talk to him, kinda ease the tension and break the silence we created from our huge fight... long story. Someone, please, tell me how I can fix this?
   
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Re: it's almost like he's dead - March 31st 2011, 09:24 PM

ok i understand. Why didnt you move on to high school? Wat was the fight bout if you dont want to say its ok. Ive never been wat u been through but i can help in anyway i can. Im here to listen n help. First, do you guys think there something wrong with the relationship between u n him? If there is do you think u can talk to him n sort it out by being nice n everything. If u see him again ask him/her tat do u think we can work it out somehow between us? Try talking to him bout it n if dont work then try some other solutions. PM me anytime


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Re: it's almost like he's dead - March 31st 2011, 09:29 PM

I didn't go to high school because I'm a year younger; he's a freshman now and I'm in 8th grade... gonna be a freshman next year (so excited!!)
We fought about... some girl told him I was cutting again (true, I'm ashamed to admit) but also said that I told her to tell him (big fat lie- in no way true). He believed her, got mad at me, and pretty much estranged himself from me. This was last year, he was in eighth and I was in seventh grade. That was in November of 2009, for six months we didn't speak though we passed each other in the hallways 5 days a week. There was a lot of misunderstanding and tension, and that was the main problem. I don't see him that often, I've only seen him twice in the last seven months. Next time I see him, though, I swear I will start a conversation and lead up to the question, "Can we work this out if you still think that's needed?" I don't know when I'll see him again, though...
   
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Re: it's almost like he's dead - March 31st 2011, 09:37 PM

is the school combined into? If you do u can. but if he is with another girl i wouldnt. i would let it rest for right now n if you see him u can. Just dont go over board with the conversation where u guys fight again. How bad r u at cutting? can u try to stop? Like i told this other girl the more blood you lose the more u have a chance in fainting. r u trying to kill yourself? if so please dont. i understand but i havent been through wat u been in. i care bout u. So dont do anything real bad. I kno its hard right now. Try your best.


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Re: it's almost like he's dead - March 31st 2011, 09:41 PM

He used to go to my school, which is a K-8 school, before he graduated last year. The high school he goes isn't combined, it's a different school. I'm not totally worried about him being with another girl because that's not what I'm trying to do with him. I really wouldn't try to go overboard with the conversation, if either one of us makes any sort of hint that we're uncomfortable, I'm sure we'd say or be able to tell, and I'd say, "Let's talk about something else,". And... I'm actually really, really deep into it. I wish I could stop, but it seems the harder I try, the more chance I have for failing.
   
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Re: it's almost like he's dead - March 31st 2011, 09:53 PM

ok then nvm, Wat u mean u got deep into cuts? girl your not suppose to do tat. Please Stop i care bout u. I dont want to hear your dead one day. Please u gotta stop. It dangerous the more u go deeper the more u have a chance n fainting or losing all your blood n dying. Please u gotta stop.


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Re: it's almost like he's dead - April 1st 2011, 07:05 PM

Thank you... You have no idea how much that means to me(: Thank you so much
   
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Re: it's almost like he's dead - April 1st 2011, 11:25 PM

Your welcome. I just care bout u. we all care bout u.


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Re: it's almost like he's dead - April 2nd 2011, 01:20 AM

Ugh... not him. He could care less, he doesn't care about me at all!!!! If I told him how much I miss him he wouldn't care... bad part is, I can't get over him. I just miss him so much, and he doesn't know or care...
   
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Re: it's almost like he's dead - April 2nd 2011, 02:54 AM

have u seen him yet? Just wandering. i kno its hard to get over someone u like. But u gotta understand tat he aint coming back unless something good happens. Not trying to be mean. I was just saying SRY!


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Then you give up. Then its all over.

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Re: it's almost like he's dead - April 5th 2011, 02:44 PM

No, I haven't seen him yet. And what do you mean he's not coming back unless something good happens? And don't be sorry for anything you say, if you didn't mean it to be offensive or hurtful, I won't take it as such(:
   
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Re: it's almost like he's dead - April 5th 2011, 05:19 PM

no i wasnt trying to make it sound like a hurtful thing. im sry. i was saying tat if u see him, then it will be a good thing. everything will be ok...


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You learn at a certain pace. Then that pace goes away. Then

you try and try to do everything you can. Then it gets harder.

Then you give up. Then its all over.

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Re: it's almost like he's dead - April 5th 2011, 09:44 PM

Ahh. Mind equals "got it"(: Thanks...
   
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Re: it's almost like he's dead - April 5th 2011, 11:38 PM

your welcome....


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you try and try to do everything you can. Then it gets harder.

Then you give up. Then its all over.

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