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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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We all die young. - October 4th 2011, 04:22 AM

I didn't know what to set as the subject, but I'd like to share this with you.

After what was going to be a great Friday and Saturday night quickly turned into a horrible day. While out with my mother and grandmother Saturday eating lunch, I got a phone call from my boyfriend explaining to me that his cousin passed away unexpectedly in his sleep. He was just 19 years old. His mother, her unfortunate soul, found him when she went to wake him for work the next morning, but he was gone.

The pre-autopsy hasn't determined a cause of death yet, and his mother wishes not to have a full autopsy performed, and is instead, having him cremated. The services are Wednesday, going on into the evening.

This is such a hard loss. Someone so young, so full of life. Why? Why does this continue to happen? Especially to people I know, and who I was close too. Another friend's cousin passed away under these very same circumstances just a few months ago, and he was 17! Just, why?











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Re: We all die young. - October 5th 2011, 09:53 PM

Heya shannon.

I know that you wont want to hear it right now, but I trully am sorry for your loss. Im thinking about you. Losing someone isent easy at any time, especailly not when they are young and its totally unexpected as theese are. How are you feeling about it all?

From reading your poast I think that the subject of this topic is totally appropiate. Really gets your point across. I understand what your saying

I strongly advice that you look at this http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f19-d...dealing-death/ I hope its usefull to you. Thats why I wrote it
IF you have any questions or want a more personalised reply then please ask them here or feel free to VM or PM me and im more than happy to reply.

I hope things improve for you soon.
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In that thread poast 6 clearly state's what coulors I can see best so please can you use these if possible so I can read your reply.


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