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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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almost one year - October 9th 2011, 07:01 AM

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on november 11th it will have been a year since he killed himself.. im not sure how im going to handle that.. i miss him so much


On the outside I'm smiling,
but inside im crying.
I'm silent, but screaming,
I'm so slowly dying.
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Re: almost one year - October 11th 2011, 10:53 PM

Hey, sorry their's been no reply on here for a while.

You don't say anyting about who it was, or why. Wich is totally fine by the way But, Im sorry that you have had to go through the feelings of losing someone to suicide.

I understand that times such as aniversieries are partiqually hard. But the other people that knew whoever it was will feel the same way. My advice is to talk to them. It will be one of the scaryest things ever to start. But if you open up about how you feel youll descover they feel the same way.

I also recomend you take a look at my guide to dealig with death wich can be found http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f19-d...dealing-death/
Finally I am more than happy to talk through anything youd want to.
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Re: almost one year - October 12th 2011, 06:39 AM

thanks. actually i made a mistake, 14th not 11th. thanks though. idk, its just hard. i considered him my brother. we only knew each other online but we were really close.


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I'm silent, but screaming,
I'm so slowly dying.
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Re: almost one year - October 12th 2011, 09:02 PM

The closer you were the harder it will be. That's only to be expected when you think about it.

Could you give any of these things Ive surgested a try? Go on..

Im allways here though (ok Im not physically, but my inbox is allways open) Let me know how you get on.

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*what does not destroy you as a warrior makes you stronger
*the tree that is slowest to grow bears the sweetest fruit
*when the sky is at it's darkest is when you can see the stars
*Ancient stone cannot be polished without friction, nor a warrior perfected without trials
*The warrior who has the ability to move mountains begins by carrying small stones

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Re: almost one year - October 12th 2011, 09:09 PM

I'm sorry you're going through that,
the only person I've ever lost that I was close to was my nephew.
And that was a year ago on the 3rd.
It was hard, but all you gotta do is distract yourself from it..
It doesn't stop it all the way but it hides it a lil.
I hope I helped some,
I tried. haha.


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