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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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My best friend - November 22nd 2011, 05:39 AM

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She was my best friend we were always together we understood each other Sunday November 20 2011 she died she committed suicide it hurt so much I has just called her that morning to go to the movies but she said her parents said no then I get a call from her older brother say she had died I haven't stopped crying I went to school today I felt so Alone without her by my side I feel if I just helped her or done something some how she would be here I was alway at her house getting away but in her eyes I protected her from the pain her parents caused and now she is gone my beat friend my sister my other half she was practically my only friend at school and we never left eachothers side beside class I just feel I could of done something to change this I miss her so much it hurts I haven't felt so sad or depressed before I need her




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Re: My best friend - November 22nd 2011, 06:52 AM

I'm so sorry.


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Re: My best friend - November 22nd 2011, 08:33 PM

Im so sorry about your loss. That is so horrible. But just think she isn't in pain anynore. Stay strong!


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Re: My best friend - November 23rd 2011, 01:07 AM

Thanks guys it just hurts to go to school and not have her by my side when I'm used to looking over and seeing her laugh at what we saw or something




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Miwa my best firend may you rest in peace I will stay here for you and you will never leave my heart because I loved you I wish you are here but now you are a concrete angel in heaven where you are loved yes I will miss you but I know your by my side every single day holding my hand
   
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Re: My best friend - November 24th 2011, 04:05 AM

Im so sorry. Thats really horrible.



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Re: My best friend - November 24th 2011, 03:08 PM

Well it's most likely that you blame yourself cause you think you just added to her misery with the fact that you asked her to the cinema and her parents said she can't go which made her depressed that her parents took the most likely one thing she truly cared about... you!!! And probably she was too upset with her life and couldn't handle one more thing, but it isn't your fault and I'm sure she wouldn't want you spending your life grieving over her cause she would probably want you to move on and I'm sure she didn't die in vain cause you made the past years of her life happy and she didn't have to go threw it on her own and for that I'm sure she owes yo her life (willingly she would give it to you) and it won't be easy at all to move on so you'll just have to learn to adapt and make new fiends but I don't think that anyone can replace her but you'll find a good friend that will be there for you. Hope this helps.
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