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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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I hate being treated like that - April 19th 2013, 01:53 AM

I left school because I was bullied, but I can't seem to get away from their remarks. I've heard everything from, "I'm going to fuck you up," to "You're unwanted, go kill yourself." So these little remarks really get to me. I was fine until tonight.

Tonight it was about how because I'm quiet, I'm rude and self centered. Apparently I'm also a spoiled brat. I'm not sure why I let this get to me, but I do. Firstly, I'm just quiet, there's no way I'm self centered. I'm also not spoiled either (we're thrifty people.)

Sorry, this was just a stupid rant.

Now I'm triggered.


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Re: I hate being treated like that - April 19th 2013, 05:04 PM

You remind me of myself, but i got over it. The same way you will.
   
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Re: I hate being treated like that - April 19th 2013, 05:14 PM

Hi there, Cassie

I'm sorry to hear you've gone through this. I can relate to the issue of letting remarks like these get to you. Even if I'm sure they're untrue, it really annoys me that it's been said in the first place. I can vividly remember certain snide remarks that have been made a long time ago, and they haunt me sometimes.

Don't worry about it being a stupid rant, because it wasn't. Venting can really help sometimes. I'm just a PM/VM away if you ever need to rant or talk about anything. Take care.
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Re: I hate being treated like that - April 20th 2013, 05:08 PM

Thanks for responding. Luckily, we're moving soon. But my therapist said the move would make me worse. All new therapists and doctors.... Today I'm a "coward who runs away from everything in life"


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Re: I hate being treated like that - April 20th 2013, 08:03 PM

Hi again,

Well, I can't say for sure whether or not the move will have a negative effect on you. If you have built up a lot of trust with your current therapist, it might be somewhat difficult to adjust to your new situation, but I'm sure you'll get used to it eventually. It may take some time (then again, it may not), but it'll work itself out.

As for what you said about being a coward, that isn't true. Running from negative things in your life doesn't necessarily always make you a coward.

I wish you the best of luck with the move and everything else, and I hope it goes okay.
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Re: I hate being treated like that - April 21st 2013, 03:17 AM

Cassie, I know how you feel, and I can honestly completely relate to what you are going through, I was around your age at the time I was bullied and because I am a sky and quiet person that is also what they said to me. If you show them that it bothers you, they will never stop. I learned that the hard way; you can do this, and I for one completely believe in you.

Keep your head up, they are wrong. You are a wonderful person.
   
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Re: I hate being treated like that - April 22nd 2013, 03:03 PM

Hey there I understand what you're going through, I've been through it quite a fair bit myself. The best advice I can offer you is what my dad told me: "The reason why they're saying such things to you is because they want to see you down, so why give them the satisfaction of having affected you? Ignore them!"

It's easier said than done, of course, and I know how the words can stick with you, but just remember that I believe in you and your strength, so believe in yourself too! Chin up, have confidence in yourself!

If you ever need someone to talk to or rant to, you can always PM me
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