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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Jumped - October 16th 2014, 11:35 PM

Finally! This awful day is over and I can go home to my bed...

As I walk out the front doors of the school, I see Elizabeth and her clique standing in the parking lot. Great...they're standing right across from my car, so there's no avoiding them...Maybe if I'm quiet, they won't notice me.
I take a deep breath and trudge across the parking lot.
"Hey, Cayce!" Elizabeth said with a smirk.
I try to ignore her and continue walking.
"Are you fucking deaf? I'm talking to you!" She shouts.
I continue to ignore her and fumble with my keys.
Suddenly, someone grabs my hair and shoves my head into the door of my car. I'm thrown down to the concrete and kicked in the chest. I'm struggling to catch my breath when all of the girls start wailing on me, kicking me and punching me in the face.
I'm crying for someone to help me, but no one is there...except the basketball team..
IT laughs at me while another boy whips out his phone and records the attack.

When they're done beating the crap out of me, Elizabeth spits on me and they prance off giggling..proud of what they had done.
My world spins and it's hard to see out of my left eye...I wish I knew why they hate me so much...what did I do to deserve this?
Why can't it all just end???
   
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Re: Jumped - October 17th 2014, 12:14 AM

Hello again.

As I have said before, it is important for you to talk to someone so you can receive the help that you need and your peers can have the necessary disciplinary action taken against them. It is not fair for you to battle this alone and by speaking to someone you will no longer have to do that.

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Re: Jumped - October 17th 2014, 01:03 AM

Oh wow, these people who beat you up clearly have no self control or common sense. You do not deserve this at all. I recommend talking to someone immediately. People who beat you up for no reason are clearly sick in the mind. Just ignore them, they will get karma one day.

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Re: Jumped - October 17th 2014, 02:04 AM

Well, I mean, they kinda have a reason.
Elizabeth hates me because she thinks that I slept with the guy that she likes..which, I did, but I didn't want to...
So, she has a reason to kick my ass, he friends just like to jump in on it to feel cool.
   
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Re: Jumped - October 17th 2014, 03:13 AM

Hey,

Even if they do hate you they still have absolutely NO right to do that to you!! But I highly recommend telling someone.. Weather it is a teacher, parent, principal or any other authority figure.. You don't have to go through this alone... You can ask a friend to tell someone if you are to nervous or something... You can write it down and give it.. If you don't want to face it face to face kinda thing.

Again, you don't deserve it... You deserve so much better.. I hope it gets better! Feel free to PM/VM me anytime
   
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Re: Jumped - October 17th 2014, 12:37 PM

I don't want to go to school today....
I'm struggling to cover up this black eye and I'm so sore, I could barely get out of bed this morning.
I just want to crawl back into bed, snuggle under the covers and slip into unconsciousness...
The day hasn't even started and, already, I'm wanting it to end.
That video has probably been sent around the whole school by now and they're armed with their forked tongue and hurtful words...UGH!
Why couldn't they beat me into a coma so I didn't have to endure this torment...?
   
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Re: Jumped - October 18th 2014, 03:59 PM

Cayce,

It sounds like you are seriously being bullied, physically, verbally and cyberbullying.

I urge you to talk to someone about this. You have evidence (black eye and the video), therefore teachers will listen to you, and be on your side, regardless of who did it.

You shouldn’t have to put up with this at all.

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Re: Jumped - October 18th 2014, 06:17 PM

I'm terrified that no one will listen...

I can't tell you how many times I've seen that stupid video...
Watching them beat the crap out of me is horrible and comforting at the same time.
I must have done something to deserve this....
Maybe they're right, what they say about me...all of it.
Ugly...Fat...Whore....Bitch...

I can't stand who I see in the mirror...
She is ugly, just like they say...
She is fat, just like they say...
Everything is true....why do I deserve to live?
   
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Re: Jumped - October 18th 2014, 11:30 PM

You have to slowly change your mindset so you don't believe in the lies that people tell you. You're not ugly, you're a beautiful person with your own qualities. Even if you don't believe it right now, you need to tell yourself positive things so you will eventually see the good in yourself. You have to take that step for yourself, though.

There is so much more happiness to life than a lot of us realize. Even little things, like the sunset or a good song. It may help if you write a list of reasons to live so you can refer to it when you need to. Here's an example of one.

If you have the video I suggest bringing that as evidence when you speak to someone about this. I can promise they will believe you, especially when you have a video of the incident.


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Re: Jumped - October 21st 2014, 06:47 AM

Have they done this before as well? You should absolutely not ignore it, file a complaint to the police or at the school, I wouldn't recommend fighting back or anything cause that's a bad idea, you say there's a video? Why not sho the video to the cops or someone in the school, I bet a video will be taken very seriously cause it can ruin the schools image, use the proof against them.
   
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Re: Jumped - October 21st 2014, 12:56 PM

It's no use...
My school is all about status...if the school didn't let them off, their parents would buy them out of it.
This was the first time that they actually physically attacked me, but they've been threatening me for a year...
   
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Re: Jumped - October 21st 2014, 02:55 PM

Not necessarily. You don't know that until you try.

You may think that your school is all about their status, but I can guarantee you there is someone at your school who cares about your well-being. You have recorded evidence - I highly doubt that your school will turn you away. And in the event that they do I suggest going to local authorities like someone else above me has suggested.


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Re: Jumped - October 21st 2014, 03:54 PM

And, what happens when they just get a slap on the wrist?
"That's bad, don't do that anymore."
Then, they'll be even more pissed than before and come after me...
I don't need to give them any more reason to hate me than they already have, besides...no one really cares about what you have to say.
No one really cares about you...no one really wants you around.
   
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Re: Jumped - October 21st 2014, 04:25 PM

Normally I tell people to buy a gun if their state has stand your ground laws, but as you're under 18 I wouldn't recommend this. First off, talk to an adult, and if the attacks persist, do whatever is nessicary to defend yourself even if that means changing schools, god forbid, hitting someone over the head with a Brick or something. When someone illegally assaults you, you shouldn't have to fight fair.


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Re: Jumped - October 21st 2014, 05:42 PM

I agree that perpetrators aren't always punished in the way that they should be, but that can eventually change. Trust me, I have a lot of my own experience. You never know, change could start with you though. At least if you talk to someone about this, someone will know about what you're going through and you'll be able to get support.


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