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Unhappy This girl hates me. - November 11th 2017, 10:06 AM

This girl I've never actually encountered but have seen around before HATES me. A week ago my friend mentioned me to her and she said ew that bitch. Which I thought really nothing of. It confused me because I'd never spoke to her.
Anyways for the past week its been her number 1 goal to humiliate me. She has been spreading false rumors, told people things about my past (that aren't even necessarily bad, she just makes it bad) and overall trying to get people to not like me?
The only correlation I can think of her hating me for is that I used to be good friends with a girl she tried to fight multiple times and did the same thing to. I've asked her what her problem is with me and if I ever did something to her and all she does really is laugh in my face.
I don't know what to do and at first it didn't bother me but eventually it does get to me..
   
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Re: This girl hates me. - November 11th 2017, 12:58 PM

Hi Sage,

This girl most likely has issues of her own and is making herself feel better by targeting you. It is definitely no excuse for her behavior but most people who mistreat others have something they are battling themselves. It is unfortunate and unfair that some people cope by putting others down.

You said you asked her why she dislikes you and all she did was laugh in your face. it doens’t seem like she’d be receptive if you told her how she makes you feel so perhaps you could consider telling a teacher, counselor, or someone higher up about this? They may be able to pull this girl aside and have a conversation with her and even give her some help she might need.

Though it is hard when rumors are spread, know that the spotlight will change shortly ad the latest story or what have you comes to light. Know that there sides to every story and that it says more about the people who choose to believe into those rumors without knowing the story’s sides than it ever will say about you.

Keep holding on, Sage.


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