Triggering (Bullying): My life....sucks.

[muchesfun]

My best friend yeva has this girlfriend. I used to date yeva, but anyway...her girlfriends names is tiffany. Tiffanys bests friends names is angel..i dated angel too. BUt then randomly they started to hate me. Everyday i would get messeges telling me to kill myself, its barely stopped. And the thing is, yevas still really good friends with them. I asked her why and she says theyre really good people. HOw can peaople that tell other people who already have problems to kill themselves be good people? She gets all pissed whenever i talk about it.. BUt i feel like dying. Everyone tells me too. And ive been through to much shit with yeva to not be her friend...i need help but i really dont want to hear anymore bullshit from people saying that i shouldnt be friends with her, blah blah blah, or that people care about me. No one does.

[Maverick.]

First of all, Welcome to TH.

If someone sends you a text message telling you to kill yourself, just ignore that person. Don't associate yourself with them. If people tell you to hurt yourself, or to kill yourself, don't listen to them. You are a great person, and you shouldn't feel upset over that.

You need to sit down and talk with Yeva. Be honest with her. Tell her how you feel. Explain to her, that her friends are disrespecting you. I see this is causing a problem in your friendship. The only other alternative, is to just accept that she wants to be friends with these people. You just have to separate yourself from these people. I mean, you're friends with Yeva, you are not friends with the people hangs out with.

If you still need to talk, we are right here. Don't be afraid to talk to us. Again, welcome to TH.

[Troubled_Heart]

Well I care! You shouldn't kill yourself, prove to yourself and to them you are stronger than that. I also think you should change your mobile phone number so you don't have to read them. You should also tell someone, an adult, because something can be done to stop them, police even get envolved to stop it if its really bad and they can get arrested! A school nurse or councillor can help you with suicidel thoughts and also give you the confidence to make new friends, I know its not what you want but if your best friend is bullying you, or is friends with those bullying you and knows it's going on, it is for the best, they obviously don't care. Please PM me if you want/need to talk! Go in Peace <3

[Celestial.]

Hey there.

I've moved this thread to Peer Pressure and Bullying, where I feel it's more appropriate.

PM me if you disagree.

Take care.

[Sea Monkey]

Hi there!

Bullies often think they can make a person weak by bullying them, however by showing them that it isn't getting to you they may stop. Maybe ask Yeva to have a little chat, tell her what problems you've been having with the people who are bullying you. If Yeva ignores what you have said, then maybe Yeva isn't the sort of person to be friends with.

Alternatively, you can tell somebody. You do not have to stand back and watch people telling you to ''kill yourself'', it's extremily hurtful and nobody should have to deal with it. Telling somebody you trust, a relative, a teacher, counsellor, somebody you can confide in to talk to. It can help to talk about it, as it's upsetting you, it can also get sorted out if you tell somebody.

I'm sorry you have had to go through this, you shouldn't have to deal with it. If you need anything at all, feel free to PM me.