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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Angry what do i do???!!!(help!) - June 9th 2011, 07:14 PM

I just found out today 3 girls in my class all hate me (i kinda already knew that) and they laugh at me for everything i do for one reason.
I'm friends with a girl in my class thats a really wierd person( she currently says 'i have a salamander in my brain') and she is my best friend! ive known her for 8 years!!! but they find that a social flaw and laugh at everything i do because of it!! If i walk past them, they laugh. if i go up to speak for a presentation, they laugh. if i play for a music test, they laugh. even when im not doing ANYTHING they laugh at me!!!! > Ive already told mthe teacher afew months ago that i was being bullyed but nothing has changed!!!
   
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Re: what do i do???!!!(help!) - June 9th 2011, 07:51 PM

Rashel,

Bullying hurts, I know that. I feel sorry that you have to experience it, especially over such a small and stupid thing. I know it may bother you, the fact they laugh at you for everything, but at the end of the day you're doing a good thing by remaining friends with this person. You obviously care a lot for her and as this is the case, you're an amazing person. So what if it's a social flaw, if she's your best friend, screw the people who want to laugh at that. People like that want to be seen as popular so they only try to be friends with people who have a similar desire, you're nice to people that typically aren't known as popular. Good on you.

Since telling someone hasn't worked, you could try again and this time make sure they do something about it by maybe telling a few teachers or those higher up than before. Also maybe try telling a teacher who is known for taking action against things that the school doesn't accept, you should know who they are because they're the ones that students are generally more cautious about when they're around them! It may help more to tell someone like that and have more of an affect on the silly people who are hurting your feelings, and indirectly picking on your friend.

If you ever want to talk, feel free to shoot me a PM and I'll help as best I can, or even just listen to your rants on your day. I hope this sorts itself out soon, try to ignore it until something is done. i know it's hard but you've got nothing to be ashamed of, you've just got a friend they havn't, and if you love your friend and you think she's a nice person, well then that's their loss really, isn't it?

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Re: what do i do???!!!(help!) - June 13th 2011, 04:44 AM

Ah, I know how that feels. Stuff like that can get to you, but just try look at it from a different perspective; Those 3 girls are constantly putting energy into teasing you. Sounds a bit bad, but think, they are putting a lot of effort into little ol' you. Bask in the attention, completely act like they don't existist. Ignoring bullies like that is a sure fire way of getting them to stop most of the time. They want you to notice them As for your friend, she seems like a girl that's great to know. She probably keeps things interesting. Stay friends with her, why give more power to the peanut gallery by losing your best friend since forever? Oh, try talk to the teachers again, bullying is a huge issue (no duh ). Either way, good luck and I hope things get better for you!
   
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