This is too much...

[becklynn]

I don't know if this is in the right category but oh well.

This guy has been texting me and sending me flirty texts. I don't mind it because he was just saying things like you are really beautiful and I want to hold you in my arms because you are amazing. The texts made me feel special and loved so I texted him back. I told him things like you are amazing and cute and I love your adorable hair. But soon the texts are getting flirtier and now he sends me texts like you are beautiful and sexy and I want your body. I still texted him back and didn't mind this because I really loved being complimented. Then he started asking for pictures of me in my bra and panties. I said no and he said ok but after a few more flirty texts he would ask again. Finally, I sent him a picture. He was happy and gave me more compliments but then he sent worse texts. He said things like I wanna fuck your amazing body and feel up your massive tits. At first I was a little offended but I just played along and sent him texts back. Now he is asking for pictures of me completely naked. I know it’s wrong and I don't want to send anything but when he texts me I feel special. Every time I say no, he doesn't text back and I miss the compliments so I tell him that I might. What should I do? I want him to stop asking for pictures but I want to feel special...

[waiting.in.the.wings]

Becky, trust me.
Even if the compliments seem flattering... (This might hurt, brace yourself)

They are just to get things out of you.
He's using flattery as a way to get photos to get off on.
Who knows where those photos might end up?

My advice: Don't send the pictures.
In fact, don't send him anything. No matter what happens, try to be strong and shut him out.
Nothing good can come from this.

Someday, and I promise this will happen, you will find a boy who wants you for every part of you, not just your body.
This boy is obviously not it.

[FlyingTrue]

Block the number and report this to someone. This guy means trouble, it is the typical pattern of sexual exploitation.

[Luckily89]

thats a big NO NO!! im sorry but i dont think he meant any of the compliments he texted you! because if he really likes you then he would respect you and he wouldnt have asked for a picture of you in your bra and undies in the first place. listen hun, HE IS JUST USING YOU to pleasure himself!
i know what you mean though, i like getting compliments from other poeple too but if they go over board and start asking for pics i ignore them!

[becklynn]

I want to tell someone about it but I'm afraid that I will get in trouble for texting him too. I know I should have never texted him back but I did...

[OMFG!You'reActuallySmart!]

A person like that doesn't give a crap about you in any way because all they want are some perverted pictures. You have no way of knowing who is viewing the pictures, it may not be just one person and it would be horrible if friends or even you found such pictures online. At first, there is no way of knowing the person's motive, however, now that you know it, block the number and ideally report the number to the authorities. You're being sexually exploited. Reporting the number ensures you eventually will stop getting such texts and other girls in the future won't get such texts by the same person.

[lea-x-fallen]

Heyas, sweety look if you tell someone, which you should it's easy to see why you text back. i would have, he this sudns harsh fooled with you and made you feel special to get soemthign out of you. he really used you in a sense.
but dont worry, tell someone who cares about you, sure they will be angry, but thas because they care =)

[MadPoet]

Becky,

Recently I had a guy do the same exact thing to me. He started with flattering texts, and then he wanted to 'sext' and I went along with it. He asked me for a nude picture and I told him no. Surprisingly he kept talking to me, but then he got a girlfriend and was through with me. Lesson learned: He only wanted one thing, and I'm really glad I didn't give it to him. Trust me, he could use this pictures against you. You say one wrong thing and they could be sent to all of his friends. It's just not a good idea.

[BDF]

I think you need to meet him in person, in a place with plenty of people around you, like on the street outside your school, after school when everyone's leaving, look him in the eye, and say no. Perhaps some other place like a highstreet might be better, because outside your school I'd imagine quite a few people would know you, which you probably wouldn't want if things turned pear shaped. Say whatever you want to say actually. It's up to you, but that's they best way to get the message across, not through texts.

If he still harasses you, block the number. If he then harasses you in person, report it. I know it seems harsh right now doing something like this, and you like the way he complements you, but if it ever gets to a stage like this then I think you'l lose sympathy for him by then.

[Sea Monkey]

Becky,

Firstly, I wouldn't recommend sending any photos of the sort as this is called 'sexting'. Sadly, this sort of thing starts with "Hey, you're beautiful" "You're cute" etc, as they are trying to 'lead you on' to sending the photographs to them. I'd recommend you don't send any photos, regardless of whether he is ignoring you. Once a photo is sent to somebody it can be used anywhere online and offline. I'd also suggest moving on from this guy, someone out there will love you for who you are; it just takes time and the right person to come along. Reporting him is always an option if he starts harassing you constantly.

Feel free to PM me if you want a chat or anything.
Take care.

[Coreless_Serenity]

Hey sweetie.

First of all, you are special. And you shouldn't need a perverted asshole to make you feel that way. I know compliments are wonderful and make you feel good about yourself, but this guy is lacking one thing that should be more important to you than compliments: respect. And what good is a compliment if that person doesn't have respect for you? I'm sorry to say, but the only reason he's showering you with compliments is because he wants naked pictures of you. And you are very smart to say no to the request of a full nude pic. Please continue to say no if he asks again. Once it's out there, you can't get it back. He could do anything he wants with photos once they are in his possession. This guy isn't worth your time. I would highly recommend not talking to him, and ignoring him if he attempts to talk to you. You shouldn't have to give sexual favors in order to recieve compliments. You ARE special. Let this guy go.