Triggering (Abuse): I got into a fight last night :/ Yet it was good.

[TJ.]

So last night I was at this party, and this girl and her ex were still friends after breaking up, and he'd been drinkin a lot, her not so much, and I was sitting there talking to the girl listening to music, then he walks up, and this is where the story starts. (I'm just pasting in what I wrote on msn :P )

she was layin on the couch, and he comes up and sits on here, and then cuddles sorta, cuz they'ere still good friends. And then he tries touching her and kissing her and she tries to push him away. But he keeps going, and she tells him to stop and doesn't. So i grab him and literally throw him off the couch into the middle of the floor and tell him to back the fuck off. And then he tried to get in my face, so me and his ex just walked away outside with some other people and hung out there.

So I guess that could be considered a good thing what I did =]

[losing touch.]

well done for protecting her.. if a guy was doing that to me i'd hope that one of my guy friends would do the same. :]

[Tegan]

Okay so I know we shouldn't be encouraging violence etc.etc.etc...
But I'm really glad you stood up for her!
Seriously, a friend of mine did it for me last night and its genuinely such a relief when someone steps in. So good for you!

[TJ.]

I only engaged in enough violence needed :] She asked nicely, he refused so I gave him some encouragement, and then when he REALLY wanted to fight, we walked away.