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Good Days! This forum is where you can share all the good times in your life!

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Breaking Up - January 3rd 2010, 02:00 AM

So, I know it looks kinda weird to have this in the "Good Days" forum. Even I'm surprised.

Basically, we both feel that this relationship's lasted about as long as it should: and year and a half, by the way. Up to this point, life's just worked out that we've been getting closer and closer. Now, our roads are heading in different directions again. Neither of us really thought this would be a permanent relationship, and this is the proverbial best of times. From here, it would only get worse. More stress, less time together, more desire to find out exactly where our lives are going. So we end it now and stay incredibly close friends, or drag it out and get slowly torn apart anyway. This really seems best. I can't say I'm happy to see it end, but I'm not sad either, or hurt. And I'm a much happier, healthier person than when we first started dating, as is Kat, so I don't have any regrets.

Thanks again for all the support guys. You really did make a difference. Hope the new year is getting off to a great start for all of you!


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Re: Breaking Up - January 3rd 2010, 02:12 AM

sometimes breaking up is for the best, for both of you - sounds like this is one of those times. i'm glad you both managed to accept the fact that it wasn't going to work out. now you can move on and have a fresh start in 2010!


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Re: Breaking Up - January 3rd 2010, 02:38 AM

Awww.
Well if it worked out then thats good. =)
Hope you have an awesome 2010 year!


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Re: Breaking Up - January 3rd 2010, 05:38 PM

I think it is good you are able to realise that breaking up was best for both of you. Some people wouldn't be able to realise that. Hope this year is a good one for you
   
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