I don't like women

[Rainbow Dash]

I've come to the conclusion, I don't really like women :/ I find it hard to trust women. There's no huge reason why, I got bulled by girls in school but I also got bullied by guys. I suppose the bullying by girls was bitchier than the bullying by guys.

I don't like having women doctors or teachers. My mental health nurse is a woman and I feel like I'd prefer it if she was a man :/ I's also prefer it if my college tutor was a man. I can talk to men easier :/ I even find it more comfortable talking to men about things like periods :/

Does anyone else feel like this?

[Cosmo]

Just personal preference really. Both genders exhibit behaviors mostly unique to that gender and it just so happens that you dislike the ones exhibited by women. Nothing wrong with it, although you have to be careful with how you act upon it.

[Angel]

Yes, I can relate to you to some extent. I haven't been bullied by girls though so I don't think it is relevant in my case.

[Awakening]

I'm actually the exact opposite. I've always had trouble trusting men, talking to men, opening up to them, etc.
Which leads to me having a lot of realtionship issues but that's another story lol.

[oOo.NICKI.oOo]

I know a few people like that in college and they're friends with mostly guys. They just don't seem to get along well with other girls. It's understandable because of what you went though. Girls can be very caddy sometimes, so I'm sorry. Hopefully you'll learn to trust some women. Not all of us are horrible people, but I understand where you're coming from.

I definitely wish I was more like you. I have a lot of trouble talking to guys. I find it very difficult to open up to them, but it also has to due with anxiety about meeting new people. It happens with both genders, but more so with males.

[Soliloquy]

For the most part, I relate to women better than I do to men. But I can open up to men when I need to, and actually, I prefer having male doctors, dentists, whatever. I feel like men judge me less on how skinny I am or how good my teeth look and they make less insensitive comments when I go for appointments. They keep it very matter-of-fact and don't bring "pretty" into it at all.

When it comes to emotional issues, I mostly approach women. But my guidance counselor at school is also a guy and yeah, he makes dumb remarks sometimes but so does my female therapist. I think it comes with the territory of being a mental health professional. I can open up to him pretty easily.

I have a hard time relating to guys my age. I pal around with all girls because I just can't seem to click with boys, really. They can be fun to hang around casually, but emotionally, there's no real connection. However, it also depends on the girl. I don't get along with extremely outgoing, fun-loving girls. I am a quiet individual. I also don't get along with girls who are catty or obsessed with their appearances -- the "girly girls."

At the end of the day, it depends for me. There are traits in both men and women that I find equally desirable and undesirable.

[TheBabyEater]

Yes. Girls are bitches. 'Nuff said.

[Pelios]

I understand what you mean I have more guy friends than girls because to be honest we are really complicated I tell my guy friends that if they want to be happy in life turn gay.
They usually come to me when they have girl problems and I can't even and I can’t even explain to them why we do certain things. Anyways I do prefer men over women when it comes down to services such as the ones you’ve mentioned, expect for the school consular mines a woman and she is funny and relax down to earth person I like her.

[Reverie.]

I can find faults with both genders but yeah I can see where you're coming from I guess.

[Cabron]

I don't really have a personal favorite, but I've always found that I've been able to identify more with guys. I have an easier time talking to them. I always feel like girls are judging me or something. :/

[Angel]

Originally Posted by Cabron

I always feel like girls are judging me or something. :/

This sounds quite plausible.

[Brandon]

Men and women really aren't psychologically that much different. When women say that they "hate men," I always chuckle because women can be just as worse. Being a lesbian ain't all about rainbows, sunshine, and oral sex. No one deserves trust; they must earn it. That goes for both men and women.

[Terry]

I'm kind of weird like that. I am more comfortable having female friends because I can be more open about my feelings in general, and they tend to be more understanding.

Although, when it comes to doctors and therapists etc I prefer men, because I have always found men to represent a more authoritative presence (be it just subtle mental cues on my part such as a deeper voice etc.) and my dad was always the one to have the last word in how to raise me due to my mother caving in to my every whim while my father would be more strict and not let me get away with everything. It's just been ingrained into my brain that men are the "powerful" figure that are always composed and take charge. While I know this is not true, and that women can be just as good therapists and doctors, it's just how I perceive the two, based on childhood experiences, and the male figures that surrounded me as a kid.

[Heartlines.]

I have trust issues in general. When it comes to doctors and therapists, I definitely would choose female over male, because I feel they can relate to me more. But for everything else, I trust men more. Girls can be harsh and manipulative. Not to mention the fact that they've always intimidated me. I've been burned and backstabbed by both girls and guys. But most girls. Girls can be ver caniving, and viscious, where as most times, guys will tell it to you striaght.

[Marguerite]

This is a pet peeve of mine so this is not directed at the OP or anyone else who has commented similarly in this thread. I just want to get this of my chest.

I hate this trend of women/girls hating on other women/girls like this. I think it's so stupid. Hardly anyone says: "I hate girls who act like X". It's just that they hate women, full stop, even though they actually are female. So basically by saying this you are implying you are somehow better or different than the entire female population of the world. All the girls that commented here saying they hate girls hate each other and think they're special snow flakes, it's just odd.

To be fair, I don't really have a problem with actual blokish women who, you know, are friends with mostly men, love sports, never wear make up etc etc but the thing is they are never the ones saying it. It's always the pretty girly girls who have mostly female friends who whine about how women are bitches, manipulative, play games, and how they're just 'one of the guys'.

I mean what the hell, you never hear straight guys say "Man, I hate men! They so stupid and annoying. I'm just one of the girls". If a guy said any of the stuff said on this thread by women about women (e.g., I don't like having female doctors), everyone who says they hate women would be like "HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT YOU SEXIST PIG!!! WAAAHHH"

People make it sound like it's some kind of disability to be a female and all of us are awful. It's just stupid.

[Cosmo]

Originally Posted by Marguerite

This is a pet peeve of mine so this is not directed at the OP or anyone else who has commented similarly in this thread. I just want to get this of my chest.

I hate this trend of women/girls hating on other women/girls like this. I think it's so stupid. Hardly anyone says: "I hate girls who act like X". It's just that they hate women, full stop, even though they actually are female. So basically by saying this you are implying you are somehow better or different than the entire female population of the world. All the girls that commented here saying they hate girls hate each other and think they're special snow flakes, it's just odd.

To be fair, I don't really have a problem with actual blokish women who, you know, are friends with mostly men, love sports, never wear make up etc etc but the thing is they are never the ones saying it. It's always the pretty girly girls who have mostly female friends who whine about how women are bitches, manipulative, play games, and how they're just 'one of the guys'.

I mean what the hell, you never hear straight guys say "Man, I hate men! They so stupid and annoying. I'm just one of the girls". If a guy said any of the stuff said on this thread by women about women (e.g., I don't like having female doctors), everyone who says they hate women would be like "HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT YOU SEXIST PIG!!! WAAAHHH"

People make it sound like it's some kind of disability to be a female and all of us are awful. It's just stupid.

But the important thing is that she's managed to feel superior to both!

[Smitten]

My problem with many women is that they are socialized from a young age to be delicate, gentle little princesses who get pretty much whatever they want through manipulation of situations - Many father's have a damn hard time saying no to their little girls.

Girls are also taught that it's not good to hurt people's feelings and that an indirect path to letting someone down is better than being outright straight forward and direct. Then you have the media showing girls from a young age that IF they are beautiful, they deserve and can get whatever they want, just reinforcing prior learning of daddy's spoiled little girl. Girls also start to learn that in western culture women should be strong and hold equal rank with men, which then in turn usually makes them have bloated ego's.

Combine all of the above factors in learning and you get one hell of alot of alpha-bitches who don't know how to coexist or compromise without holding a grudge. Factor in that they are taught that the indirect path is preferable, and you get a whole ton of subversive bitchy bullshit which drags on and on and on and on seemingly forever when it could be settled by "punching each other in the face and then going out for beers so to speak" like us guys do it.
That's the issue I have.

[PutYourHeartsUp]

I'm fine with both. I HATE grouping people into categories like that, even though I'm guilty of it sometimes. I agree with what Marguerite said. I mean, if you're going to say you hate females, at least say the type you hate. Because if you hate every type of female, and you're a girl, you're saying you hate yourself.

[Neon]

Originally Posted by Marguerite

I hate this trend of women/girls hating on other women/girls like this. I think it's so stupid. Hardly anyone says: "I hate girls who act like X". It's just that they hate women, full stop, even though they actually are female. So basically by saying this you are implying you are somehow better or different than the entire female population of the world. All the girls that commented here saying they hate girls hate each other and think they're special snow flakes, it's just odd.

I thought the exact thing reading this thread. I certainly do think it's the way parents are raising their children to believe they are special and different, and no one taking responsibility for their own actions. You get people refusing that they are apart of their institutions when something negative is placed upon them. Then because of this, you get girls saying they hate girls, but then "Oh no, I don't act like those other girls, I am different". Not that I'm condeming anyone here, I just find it odd that I see girls like this time to time. While obviously they think the MAJORITY of girls suck and not all of them, you get a group of 10 or so girls all agreeing they are in the minority, which odds are, is extremely unlikely.

Originally Posted by Smitten

My problem with many women is that they are socialized from a young age to be delicate, gentle little princesses who get pretty much whatever they want through manipulation of situations - Many father's have a damn hard time saying no to their little girls.

I think genders are more evening out due to that. There are the spoiled alpha females who manipulate, lie and cheat to get a nice guy to buy them something, or get another girl to do what they want. On the opposite side, there are confident alpha male type characters who manipulate girls with problems into fucking them. It's just preying on someones insecurities to get what you want. Though it seems so, taking advantage of the weak is hardly something that isn't prevalent in today's society. And because of that, while it isn't exactly accepted, it certainly is ignored. The one thing I do give credit to women is that they certainly do not seem proud of doing this, while guys do.

[Smitten]

Originally Posted by Taste Of Neon

I think genders are more evening out due to that. There are the spoiled alpha females who manipulate, lie and cheat to get a nice guy to buy them something, or get another girl to do what they want. On the opposite side, there are confident alpha male type characters who manipulate girls with problems into fucking them. It's just preying on someones insecurities to get what you want. Though it seems so, taking advantage of the weak is hardly something that isn't prevalent in today's society. And because of that, while it isn't exactly accepted, it certainly is ignored. The one thing I do give credit to women is that they certainly do not seem proud of doing this, while guys do.

No offense meant with my following statement, but you live in Canada.

Everyone's nice in Canada! (atleast that the the steriotype I hear constantly - and my friends who are Canadian [3 of them] tend to consistently conform to that stereotype. )

Well, I must say - while your logic is not obviously flawed, I think that it is from somewhat of a different cultural perspective.
In the US, especially metropolitan and Suburban areas - the Alpha bitch is rampant. It's like a plague.
Honestly, the girls who aren't alpha bitches are victims of alpha bitches and have the emotional baggage associated with being a victim.

Personal opinion: this culture is fucked. Morals are in short supply.
Common sense is skewed to the extreme, and the quality of interpersonal relationships are only a ghost of what they were decades ago.

I hear about friendships people had, the way they cared for each other, etc. Today's culture is so self absorbed and wealth driven that people would sell out a friend of years to make a buck - especially girls who think their shit don't stink.

The most dangerous creature in today's society is the woman who knows she's hot and uses it to manipulate and coerce everyone in her wake.

[jaycoboram]

haha i totally agree. i've have had really bad experiences with women. i can always trust my male friends more. they're awesome to hang out with. this doesnt mean that im gay but still i just havent found the perfect woman.

[Magical Forest.]

I just find it hard to trust anyone. I've been let down by so many people, both sexes. The trust is just different for each sex.

[Ambiance]

Originally Posted by Mr. Gir

Yes. Girls are bitches.

Dude, I say this exact thing all the time xD

One of my friends caught me in a situation where she thought I had screwed over another friend and the phrase "chicks before dicks" was appropriate, and I said, "Except any chick will fuck you over way worse than a good boyfriend will." Which isn't really fair, but for the most part... girls are cannibals

[Ambiance]

And yeah I've never liked women. My Mom doesn't either. I think some of us tend to just not be as petty, and trust me, you'll pay for that.

[MegaMadness]

I hate some women, I hate some men. In general I just hate lots of people.

[chook14]

A lot of it comes down to trust I guess....I have a hard time trusting men, even my male friends. I guess I feel like I understand girls more, as I have sisters, and lots of female friends. Whereas I have no idea what males are thinking and I think that freaks me out! I need to be able to read people a bit to be comfortable, and I will just never understand men :P It does make relationships tricky :S

[Cosmo]

Originally Posted by chook14

A lot of it comes down to trust I guess....I have a hard time trusting men, even my male friends. I guess I feel like I understand girls more, as I have sisters, and lots of female friends. Whereas I have no idea what males are thinking and I think that freaks me out! I need to be able to read people a bit to be comfortable, and I will just never understand men :P It does make relationships tricky :S

That's certainly odd. I know very few, if any, people who would say that women were easier to understand than men. In fact, the reason many women associate more with men is because they are so easy to understand. We just say it how it is - there's very, very rarely a hidden meaning behind anything. If we say there's nothing wrong, there probably isn't. With women, you have to be very careful with what you say. Something completely innocent could mean something very different, and things they say often mean something very different.

Of course that's not a universal truth, but I do find it odd that you find women easier to understand than men. I think most women who get on better with women than men would still say men are easier to understand!

Hang around with a few guys, you'll realise how simple we really are! ^_^

[chook14]

Originally Posted by MonsterCosmonaut

That's certainly odd. I know very few, if any, people who would say that women were easier to understand than men. In fact, the reason many women associate more with men is because they are so easy to understand. We just say it how it is - there's very, very rarely a hidden meaning behind anything. If we say there's nothing wrong, there probably isn't. With women, you have to be very careful with what you say. Something completely innocent could mean something very different, and things they say often mean something very different.

Of course that's not a universal truth, but I do find it odd that you find women easier to understand than men. I think most women who get on better with women than men would still say men are easier to understand!

Hang around with a few guys, you'll realise how simple we really are! ^_^

haha yeah, I think it's the simplicity that throws me though...maybe I just over analyse things too much, but I just have a hard time believing that men always do say it how it is without any hidden meaning. I guess with women I expect it, but with men I'm always suspicious of it if that makes sense! I know I'm making myself sound like a crazy person :P I do have a lot of male friends and have been in a few relationships, but I think I'll just always find women easier to relate to!

[Cosmo]

Originally Posted by chook14

haha yeah, I think it's the simplicity that throws me though...maybe I just over analyse things too much, but I just have a hard time believing that men always do say it how it is without any hidden meaning. I guess with women I expect it, but with men I'm always suspicious of it if that makes sense! I know I'm making myself sound like a crazy person :P I do have a lot of male friends and have been in a few relationships, but I think I'll just always find women easier to relate to!

I think that makes sense. You're used to analysing everything because you spend lots of time around women, so when you talk to men you're not used to not needing to analyse it.

[Soul of the heart]

u dont like woman!!!?? y!!?/ woman are amaizing!!