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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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Unhappy Something in me has changed. - February 20th 2018, 02:09 PM

Hey,
Well my life has been quite tough all this while now it is getting worse.
Before(probably like a 3 or 4 months ago) i would just move on easily with anything which happens to me, what ever it maybe. Well now even the smallest matters bug the hell out of me, I keep thinking, pondering and contemplating about and never used to do it before. However big the problem was i would just get over it and now it seems impossible. For example: I would just on move on after my crush rejected me , i felt it was like nothing a tall , i didnt feel bad or feel any other stuff and things went just on normal the next day and until a couple of months ago i fell in love on a another girl, everything was all ok and smooth until when i found out that I can never get into a relationship with her and the fact that i cant is just killing.
Moving on was the easiest part of my life till then. After this my whole life has been shit, this stuff is just killing me.
I dont know i have never been like this before.
I dont know what made become this weird person i am now.
I want to be like before.......... I want to be my old self and not how i am now.

PS: I have no one who i can trust except my family.
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Re: Something in me has changed. - February 21st 2018, 04:44 AM

I understand how its like...

Love and friendships aren't small things. To some, love and friendship can be thrown away because they think they can find it elsewhere. But friendship and love to some others are very important (most of the people on here think that way ) and you're one of us... and the truth is that you were probably looking forward to moments with your crush, but she didn't reciprocate your feelings.

But I know that you're very young, and that there's still hope for you. Much younger than me, you are.

You need to probably try some new things.. and maybe meet more people around you. Then you might be able to fall in love with someone new , and perhaps she will give you the happiness and company you deserve.

I know what it's like to lose someone important. I know.I'm still fighting a battle because of that, one I will most likely lose.

But you can beat this.

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Re: Something in me has changed. - February 22nd 2018, 08:45 PM

Hello, I'm so sorry that you are having a hard time with this right now. When you are or have been in a relationship with someone and you can't be anyone it's hard to be okay with this. Can you try talking with someone and letting them know that you are having a hard time. The school counselor or a really good teacher or if you are able to talk with you're family. And if it's too hard to say you can always write it down on paper and give it to them, so that they can help you with this.
Also can you try going for walks or putting on movies or music or calling a friend to help pick you up. Or you can try writing or drawing if you like that or anything else that you like to do. I hope you will be okay soon.
   
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Re: Something in me has changed. - February 23rd 2018, 01:06 AM

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I understand how its like...

Love and friendships aren't small things. To some, love and friendship can be thrown away because they think they can find it elsewhere. But friendship and love to some others are very important (most of the people on here think that way ) and you're one of us... and the truth is that you were probably looking forward to moments with your crush, but she didn't reciprocate your feelings.

But I know that you're very young, and that there's still hope for you. Much younger than me, you are.

You need to probably try some new things.. and maybe meet more people around you. Then you might be able to fall in love with someone new , and perhaps she will give you the happiness and company you deserve.

I know what it's like to lose someone important. I know.I'm still fighting a battle because of that, one I will most likely lose.

But you can beat this.

Much kindness and warmth,
Darren.
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Re: Something in me has changed. - February 23rd 2018, 01:08 AM

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Hello, I'm so sorry that you are having a hard time with this right now. When you are or have been in a relationship with someone and you can't be anyone it's hard to be okay with this. Can you try talking with someone and letting them know that you are having a hard time. The school counselor or a really good teacher or if you are able to talk with you're family. And if it's too hard to say you can always write it down on paper and give it to them, so that they can help you with this.
Also can you try going for walks or putting on movies or music or calling a friend to help pick you up. Or you can try writing or drawing if you like that or anything else that you like to do. I hope you will be okay soon.
HEY, thanks for the suggestion but i have no one i can trust or a friend i tell everything, so i will have to keep it with myself
   
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Re: Something in me has changed. - February 23rd 2018, 07:02 PM

Hey there,

If you have had new and stressful things come up it's possible that the stress is causing you to struggle a bit more than usual. I also think there are times when crushes impact us differently. There were a few crushes that I have had over the years and I have only ever struggled to get over one of them. I cannot figure out why I struggled to get over that one but I know that I was able to place that crush where it needed to be. It's possible that this crush was different than the other ones which is what is leading to you struggling with moving on. I think over time you might find that you are able to 'get over' it unfortunately it might take a bit longer than crushes from your past.

If you trust your family maybe you could try talking to them or you could consider reaching out to the school counselor if your school has one.

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