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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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Fighting to keep sane - January 18th 2010, 09:22 PM

Great, So my girlfriend has no idea if she wants to be with me...but ITS OK SHE LOVES ME...

Fucking world always throwing shit at me

Argument with my dad
Mum lost her Job
brothers in the RAF
No Job
College is absoulte SHIT and i wanna quit
no friends
Girlfriend isnt fighting for me
All alone every hour of every day
Throwing up
Panic attacks
No sleeping
Havent eaten in 3 days (had some cereal this morning and had a little bit of a meal yesturday)
My future plans have been ruined

And to top it all off the one place i love to be (justin.tv) watching a certain channel, they banned me for no reason....

How do i hold on in such dark times?

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Re: Fighting to keep sane - January 19th 2010, 01:26 AM

Hey Robin,

I know that having all of this going on has to be so difficult. However, you must try to remember that things will get better; it will not always be this way. Find things that make you happy; read a good book, watch your favorite TV show, post here on TeenHelp...find a hobby that you love and hold on to it. This will help to distract you from all of the low points you've been forced to face.

However, it's also inportant to face these emotions you are feeling. Is there anyone in your life whom you could speak with about what you are going through? Sometimes, just getting all of this out can help so much. You could talk to a close friend, a family member; anyone you can trust will do.

Take care, and if you need anything, feel free to PM me.

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in a long time,
I can say that I wanna try.
I feel helpless for the most part,
but I'm learning to open my eyes.
And the sad truth of the matter is,
I'll never get over it,
but I'm gonna try
to get better and overcome each moment
in my own way"

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Re: Fighting to keep sane - January 20th 2010, 08:54 PM

nope, no one to talk to...and that isnt a joke i have no one to talk to....

I tried TV it just annoys me, music makes me sad, Gaming just doesnt keep me occupied like it used to, my comp tempts me to do stupid things

Im so stuck...
Why me?

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Re: Fighting to keep sane - January 21st 2010, 02:58 AM

Then you begin pursuing the way in the other areas. Spend sometime looking up/thinking what you want to do with your life. Stay healthy and some of those other problems will go away. Talk to your girlfriend and if things don't seem to be going well, then just be patient and let time show you what next. Somethings like girlfriends just need time for whichever answer you shall get. No Job, then keep trying. Try getting work at school or something else. But also most importantly, meditate on these problems and then see how you begin to combat them.

When someone is lacking motivation, rarely will it come back if he just sits down. So stand up and start looking as to how you can get around these problems. Remember it will take time.

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