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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 12:02 AM

this guy I know from my old college who's MARRIED and has a CHILD with his WIFE just messaged me on Facebook

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How are you? I'm bored, want to ask me some dirty questions on msn?
No, I don't :| Do I really look like someone who would? you're married and have a 2 year old son >____< even if you weren't.... wtf? :|

I want to know what's wrong with me. The only guys who like me seem to be perverts and have a girlfriend/wife.


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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 12:32 AM

urgh, i hate creeps like that. just block/delete. i feel sorry for his wife!
and no, theres nothing wrong with you.. there are some nice guys out there, sometimes they're just few and far between.


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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 12:40 AM

I may just ignore him for now and if I get anymore messages I'll block him.

It depresses me a little :/ people must think I'd actually do stuff like that with them even if they're married.

I feel sorry for her also


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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 03:09 PM

Is she on facebook. I would quote and send it to her. I haven't used facebook in two years, so I dunno if you can do that. If not email her a pic of the webpage (Google it if you don't know how) I would get on that quickly. Don't bother with the Url if it's a private message, won't work.
   
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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 03:13 PM

I hate people like that, the fact that he has a wife and kids is disgusting. If he carries on, I'd do what Justin says and forward the message to his wife. That'll probably make him back off, his wife doesn't deserve that.
   
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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 03:15 PM

I could just print screen the message he sent me.. but :/ I don't really know if I would want to meddle in their relationship. They have a kid at the end of the day, I don't want to ruin their relationship for the baby :/

The sad thing is I seem to care more about his baby than him ____


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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 03:26 PM

Yeah, that's true. I didn't think of that, I guess if he tried to do more then it would be worth informing his wife about but seeing as it was just a message, although it's still bad, it's minor.
   
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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 04:32 PM

i don't think you should get involved.. but if he sends you another message reply saying that if he carries on you'll send her a screen shot.


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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 05:15 PM

If I were you I'd send it to the wife. Chances are if he asked this of you he's probably already asked other women.
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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 05:24 PM

Hmmmm, I just phoned my friend (who also knows him), told her what happened and she said he used to be the same with her :|

I don't know what to do now :/


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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 12th 2011, 05:42 PM

You should tell his wife. Even if it's playful now he's looking for sex. That would ruin their relationship. If you tell his wife, at least they can work through the problems before they're too much. Not only that, but the message was inapropriate even if you were both single.
   
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Re: WHAT is wrong with me? really? - March 15th 2011, 11:34 AM

I think I agree with Justin. I mean, he could even be cheating on his wife, so I think if he continues to send you should tell him that you'll tell his wife. And if he still doesn't stop, you should tell her..........
   
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