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Unhappy I hate his guts - November 25th 2011, 08:37 PM

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HE sexually abused me..my ex boyfriend that is.
My guy "hero" beats me...i dont think its on purpose, idk.

The guy that sexually abused me well we dated on and off a whole year, broke up got back together --total of 8 times.

Then the last time he cheated on me.
He threw me on my bed once and told me he could rape me if he wanted to.

Im beginning to fear guys, fearing that they'll always treat me bad, always hurt me, always leave..

Now I hate couples, I hate everywhere we went together.
I'm a cutter.
I'm a fuck up...

I wish I could be good enough..


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Re: I hate his guts - November 26th 2011, 03:29 AM

Its best to not talk to either of those guys again. Don't date either until you feel ready, which may take awhile after getting abused so much. You don't deserve this, and I promise not all guys are like this. Otherwise there wouldn't be so many couples in the world.
You aren't a fuck up, don't let their words change your opinion of yourself. You've done nothing wrong.
As for self harm, check out Alternatives to Self Harm.



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Re: I hate his guts - November 29th 2011, 12:49 AM

You ARE good enough. HE isn't. He shouldn't do that to you if he truely loves or cares about you! You deserve someone who treats you with respect and how you want to be treated. If you're unhappy with him and what he did, then don't be with him. Because that's just wrong! I'm so sorry for what you're going through though. It must be hard but you can get through this. And if he cheated on you, then you really shouldn't be with him because how could you trust him again? You are good enough, he isn't good enough for you. Remember that. Message me if you need anymore advice(:


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