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Exclamation Went from going great, to absolute panic. Seriously need help. - November 25th 2011, 08:50 PM

Ok, so my mom's boyfriend and his son are over for Thanksgiving, they're staying until Sunday. Well the son and I are having a "thing" and was pretty much doing everything except straight sex last night, and I wanted to talk to someone about it (I don't know why, I guess kind of like bragging.) and there's only one person I talk to about this sort of thing, and that's my best friend in Kansas. Considering she does the same thing, only more and with more guys, she's someone I can talk to about it, and trust no one else will hear about it. Well her mom saw one of her messages to me about it, and may or may not talk to my mom about it. Who also walked in on us when I was on top of him. Not riding him, it just looked like I was laying on him when she saw us. Although this morning she gave me what sounded like a warning "Don't go too far." (Me) "Too far with what?" "You know." "What??" "Too far with -Guy's name here-." "..I won't." "Uh huh." And then I told her a little while ago that I wasn't feeling good, and it's because I started my period yesterday. (AKA reason why we couldn't do anything, even though I just started today. TRYING to cover my tracks.)

EDIT: Her mom only saw the thing about me starting "yesterday" and she's for some reason pissed at my friend and not me, and my friend said we weren't doing anything. And she doesn't think her mom will talk to my mom about it. I'm feeling slightly better.

So I think she knows what we were doing, I mean, we were trying to be quiet, but these walls are thin. And I don't know if her mom will talk to my mom about it, and I don't even know what message she saw, so I'm REALLY REALLY freaking out about it. I'm shaking because I'm just in panic right now. I see no problem with messing around and sex before marriage, as long as you use proper protection and do it safe, and if something happens to take responsibility. But my mom's really conservative, so it's basically small hugs, and short kisses before marriage. Nothing else. Anything more after marriage. So if she finds out we were screwing around in the next room, she's going to get super pissed and I don't know what'll happen. I'm just scared. This is only the second time I've messed around with someone, and I made a stupid mistake of wanting to talk to my best friend about it, and now I'm pretty much screwed because of it. I know I'm probably over-analyzing, and worrying overly much, but I'm still scared to death of what could happen. I just don't know what to do. And the guy I was messing around with is blaming himself, and it's not and it makes me feel bad. I made the first move, I started this whole thing. And I just don't know what to do about it all. I felt like throwing up, or crying because I was just so nervous about everything. I even just wanted to run away, I just want to be someplace no one knows me, and no one will judge me because I've been messing around with someone. I know people will everywhere you go, but I just want someplace where I won't get in trouble for something I want to do and my mom has a different outlook.



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