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Question Why are you here? - April 12th 2012, 01:18 PM

I like to ask people why they are here. So, why are you here? Why did you join this website?

I'm here because I used to cut, and I'm suicidal. I guess also cause my parents are worried bout me


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Re: Why are you here? - April 12th 2012, 01:37 PM

I first came because I was feeling depressed, and now I just like helping people, and occasionally asking for advice myself...and I just don't know how to leave. So I guess it's a combination of those things.





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Re: Why are you here? - April 12th 2012, 01:54 PM

I came for help for myself though I don't think i'll get it because I don't want to ask and I came to help others. Also for something to do and meet friends. Plus, it seemed like a good place so I thought why not?
   
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Re: Why are you here? - April 12th 2012, 02:08 PM

I am here for myself and more for others. Helping others makes me happy which helps me through my depression.


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Re: Why are you here? - April 13th 2012, 12:05 PM

I joined because I was feeling suicidal and felt like I had nowhere left to turn.


Do you wanna come with me? 'Cause if you do, then I should warn you - you're gonna see all sorts of things. Ghosts from the past. Aliens from the future. The day the Earth died in a ball of flame. It won't be quiet, it won't be safe, and it won't be calm. But I'll tell you what it will be: The trip of a lifetime!
   
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Re: Why are you here? - April 13th 2012, 06:13 PM

I'm here b/c of temporary insanity....

Actually, I had a patient a while back who reported that this place was a great help to him, so I decided to check it out. After seeing what it offers and can do for people, I decided to contribute. Hoping that my perspective can be helpful!


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Re: Why are you here? - April 13th 2012, 09:36 PM

I visited TeenHelp because I was looking for a good online community that I could tell other people about (I used to be an administrator on another website, and there were quite a few people dealing with mental health issues). I knew there was something special about this place after viewing the forums, so I decided to join and contribute advice during my summer break. One thing led to another, and now I'm serving multiple staff roles and will be celebrating my TeenHelp three year anniversary on June 11th! =) 99.9% of the time, I am here to help people. 0.1% of the time, I actually turn to others for support and advice.


   
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Re: Why are you here? - April 13th 2012, 09:53 PM

I originally came here because I was having a tough problem and needed advice. I left for some time after the problem was solved, but something just drew me back after a few months away. I found myslef coming back more and more, and this place became a huge part of my daily routine. Now I'm on staff, and I stay because I want to help people as much as I can and I never want to leave here again.


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Re: Why are you here? - April 13th 2012, 11:04 PM

I looked up the butterfly project, and a link to a TH page popped up. I started reading the forums, and decided to join.
   
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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 04:52 PM

Hi im here cos i have a mental illness and to find some help i guess


pain is a fabrication of the mind life is a regretable and unavoidable reality, which sucks ass big time.

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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 07:58 PM

Same reason as many of the others - depression, self harm, etc. I joined when I was 16 in the year 2006 after being physically assaulted I was also dealing with family problems and personal problems. I honestly think if I had not found this site when I did, I may not be here now. This site has and still is a lifeline for me. I also have found that this is one of most caring and non judge-mental online communities on the internet. This site would not be the place it is without all the people on here. To sum TH up ? One big caring family.




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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 08:12 PM

I came because of my depression, SH, and suicidal thoughts. Mostly now i just try to help people and make friends.


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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 08:18 PM

I came here because I was struggling with self harm and suicidal thoughts.
I was about 14 when I originally joined, but wasn't very active and created this account in early 2008 I believe (annoying that I can't remember exactly, but that was before the reset)

Now i'm here to talk to new people, get advice, give advice, and just generally be a part of the TH community!





   
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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 08:36 PM

I joined because I liked the atmosphere and how welcoming the members were. I was referred by my sister. I wanted help with anxiety issues.

I have decided to stick around mainly because of the people here. I have made a few really great friends here. Obviously, another reason I'm still here is because I'm on staff here, a role I greatly enjoy
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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 08:37 PM

I knew about TH before I joined, like, a full year before I joined. I was on it once or twice as a guest, I guess.

The first time I've ever remember finding TH was when I was feeling horrible about my body image, but I got over it.

The actual reason I joined? Being LGBT, questioning trans, questioning FTM, not feeling like I belonged fully in either trans or cis, and sometimes depressive... - A whole lot better now ;D


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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 08:38 PM

I joined when I was 12 and in the seventh grade, the main reason I joined was because I wanted to start cutting again and had no one to turn to for help. Another major reason that I joined was because I had felt suicidal for a little over a year when I first joined. Since I joined TH, I started cutting again, my self-mutilation has had its ups and downs, and thankfully right now I can say it's a down time. =) In the past year I've developed what may or may not be an eating disorder and it has gotten to the point where it is out of my control.

But the main reason I'm still here is because of all the fantastic people I've met and how heartbroken I'd be if I couldn't talk to them. ♥


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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 08:48 PM

Honestly, I originally joined because I had a few sex questions I also started dealing with some major relationship problems which eventually became abuse, so this site provided the support system I needed. I also have SH & ED issues, so the awesome people here help me with that as well. Then of course, I like socializing with people here.



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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 08:57 PM

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Re: Why are you here? - April 15th 2012, 08:58 PM

Because I'm messed up and I have a wonderful cousin that helped me find this place!



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Re: Why are you here? - April 16th 2012, 05:23 PM

Well I joined up not planning to stay, but decided I could potentially reach out to people about things I Wasn't sure about. There wasn't anything in particular but I found the site helpful and decided to stay.


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Re: Why are you here? - April 16th 2012, 10:17 PM

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Re: Why are you here? - April 17th 2012, 09:45 PM

I'd like to gain support and knowledge required for my eventual transition into manhood.

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Re: Why are you here? - April 18th 2012, 07:34 AM

I am here because i really enjoyed sharing ideas and knowledge to others, i love to learn new things and help others as well. I love joining different forum.
   
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Re: Why are you here? - April 18th 2012, 08:31 AM

I found this site through the To Write Love on her Arms affiliates, I was dealing with SH and ED issues, and was basically completely closeted about it. This website gave me one place where I didn't have to hide, and I could be honest that I was suffering. Today, i'm a bit more open about my insecurities, but this site still serves as my safety blanket.



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Re: Why are you here? - April 21st 2012, 06:46 AM

I'm here because apparently I'm not allowed to leave.
I first joined for the same reasons a lot of people do - dealing with some issues and looking for some help. I got some support, went away for a while, came back, joined staff, and have been addicted ever since.



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Re: Why are you here? - April 21st 2012, 05:29 PM

I stumbled across it when I was looking for SH support online. I didn't really have any intention of staying, but I'm addicted now. I'm still here because of the people and the fact that it's the one place I don't have to hide.



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Re: Why are you here? - April 21st 2012, 06:16 PM

I am here because I am a cutter, burner, i have been anorexic, i have insomnia, depression, suicidal thoughts, ADD, anxiety, I'm bisexual, and I just need someone to talk to. someone who understands.
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Re: Why are you here? - April 27th 2012, 10:00 AM

I am here to help people, but most importantly to open my eyes and gain knowledge.
   
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Re: Why are you here? - April 27th 2012, 01:15 PM

A forum I used had a link to TH so I decided to check it out and see what it was like and I thought it looked like a good place, so I joined and I've been here every since. It has been many, many years now and I'm still here.
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Re: Why are you here? - April 29th 2012, 03:23 AM

I was looking for articles about Trichotillomania when I stumbled upon TH. I looked around as a guest for some time, and when I finally got my laptop, I joined. I'm here for various reasons, two being SH and Trich.
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Re: Why are you here? - April 29th 2012, 05:26 AM

I was looking for SH support online and found TH.
And now I absolutely adore this site!


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Re: Why are you here? - April 29th 2012, 08:04 AM

I originally came here because my life was falling apart around me, but then I realized how much better helping others and well it became my main reason to be here And I wouldn't want it any other way, this place and the people here really helped me through a lot and still do.


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Re: Why are you here? - April 29th 2012, 08:15 AM

Waaaay back at the beginning of 2006, I decided to stop SH and wanted some support - TH was the first site that popped up from whatever it was I googled. I had a look around, I joined. It's like a bad habit. Before the reset there was an arcade, I spent so much time in the arcade - I was also on staff for a while before the reset.

After the reset it was a while before I came back. Something to do with not wanting my partner (now ex) to know about it. But TH is like a bad habit . . . you just keep coming back to it

I can't help myself . . . I have to sign onto TH at least every other day.
   
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Re: Why are you here? - April 29th 2012, 11:02 AM

I joined because I wanted help with one thing.

Then I stayed helping a few people and debating. It's fun


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Re: Why are you here? - April 29th 2012, 02:18 PM

I struggle with eating, depression and self harm


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Re: Why are you here? - April 29th 2012, 04:03 PM

I was fed up with everything in my life and one day, I basically was googling everything that was relevant to me for getting the help I needed. I was sick of how I was feeling and needed a outlet to vent and seek help. I was very angry at myself and everything around me, and my anger found me here. I am glad that I did find this web site.
   
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