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your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - February 20th 2011, 03:51 AM

ok here is how it goes.
you basically describe what your perfect BF/GF

ill start this off

so basically my perfect GF would be a girl that is basically has the indie fashion/ loves going to local concerts,film festivals, art shows, coffee shops, ect.../ i like an artsy girl/ and a laid back go with the flow drama free kind aswell

all i know is i will never find it


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - February 20th 2011, 04:01 AM

Lol, Dave Mustaine! It sounds like you're describing me! Too bad I'm already taken =P (j/k!)

My perfect boyfriend is the one I'm dating:

An artist, relaxed personality, handsome, great sense of humor, compassionate, light hearted, great sense of style, loves to relax at home watching a movie/tv show, loves going to live theatre, overall amazing guy <3


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - February 20th 2011, 04:33 AM

Perfect girlfriend is a girl who is generous but not too generous. Knows how to manage her life, and has strong goals for herself. Likes to spend quality time inside but yet likes going out and enjoying outdoors. Loves music, and traveling. Romantic. Energetic yet lazy. And has nice eyes.

Perfect boyfriend, Celtics fan. Phillies fan. Ummmm...thats it. Lol, jk jk. Has a sense of humor, chubby, nice hair. Cleans his clothes, and is responsible. Doesn't like partying and getting drunk everynight, likes cuddling more than sex. Romantic. Tall.


It's funny how in a girl I could really care less about looks, with a guy I have many preferences.



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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - February 22nd 2011, 06:05 AM

Hmm...well, I'm picky.
Ideal guy would have to have close to the same taste in music (and if not the same, at least respectable taste).
Being tall is key. Dark hair/dark eyes is nice too, but I'm not really fussed about physical appearance.
Clean. Good hair/skin. No grease.
Funny.If you aren't funny, I'm not going to date you. End of.
Intelligent. Preferably smart about psychology and the internet. Things like that.
Being a good kisser. :] Not being all about sex.
That's about it, I think!
   
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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - February 22nd 2011, 07:11 AM

For me, the perfect guy is.

I would like a guy a little taller then me, with really nice eyes and muscles. Funny, yet smart. Can be funny and silly but also has a serious side, and is responsible. He also has to be really caring, who is willing to be there when I need him the most. Loves doing some of the same things as me, but also has some different interests. Is a really sweet romantic who cares about just being together, and doesn't mind spending a night in just cuddling and hanging out together.

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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - February 22nd 2011, 05:55 PM

Oh goodness, I have like a checklist and I use it on everyone. If they don't hit enough of my check points, then I won't even consider them. It's awful, and I'm trying to change it, but it's sort of just built into me. Haha.

-Christian.
-Play a sexy instrument.
-Says witty things.
-Loves a respectable genre of music.
-Fashion sense.
-Fearless in the face of danger.
-Not afraid to show how he feels.
-Sweet, but definitely not overly sweet.
-Close to same taste in food.
-Confident, but not conceited.
-Creative.
-Determined.
-Has goals for his life.
-Repectful, Polite, and Kind.
-This may be weird, but he has to eat politely. I think it's weird when people eat in front of me, so if he's going to, he'll at least have to eat respectfully, and not grossly. I don't like seeing the food or hearing them chew or swallow it. It's probably my biggest pet peeve. And I definitely don't like people talking while they're eating, that's just not polite.
-Someone who knows how to have fun.
-Someone with a good sense of humor.


This isn't even all of it, but I'll stop here. Haha.

He doesn't exsist, and I'm aware of that.
Making a checklist that doesn't leave anybody to fit it's standards is kind of my way to escape dating.


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - February 22nd 2011, 10:33 PM

define sexy instrument and a respectable genre of music
minus being a christian and if you answer the above question you basically described me


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - February 24th 2011, 06:07 AM

My perfect girlfriend = someone who can unconditionally love me and who can listen and understand without bias even if how I feel/think or what I do makes her mad....


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 5th 2011, 03:02 AM

This really made me think on what EXACTLY I would like from a boyfriend...like the characteristics he has and etc... I'll get back to you on this xD


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 5th 2011, 09:27 AM

I'd say my girlfriend is my perfect girlfriend =p
- Beautiful (=p)
- Down to earth
- Caring
- Nice ginger hair
- Folky/hippy
- Very similar to me
- Likes to cook
- Likes to grow things
- Morris Dancer
- Good biological aspects which make her a compatible mate
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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 5th 2011, 10:03 AM

My perfect boyfriend would:

~Be funny
~Have gorgeous blue eyes
~Have lovely hair
~Be able to make me smile
~Not be embaressed of me


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 8th 2011, 12:35 AM

Quote:
-Christian
-Play a sexy instrument.
-Says witty things.
-Loves a respectable genre of music.
-Fashion sense.
-Not afraid to show how he feels.
-Sweet, but definitely not overly sweet.
-Close to same taste in food.
-Confident, but not conceited.
-Creative.
-Determined.
-Has goals for his life.
-Repectful, Polite, and Kind.
-This may be weird, but he has to eat politely. I think it's weird when people eat in front of me, so if he's going to, he'll at least have to eat respectfully, and not grossly. I don't like seeing the food or hearing them chew or swallow it. It's probably my biggest pet peeve. And I definitely don't like people talking while they're eating, that's just not polite.
-Someone who knows how to have fun.
-Someone with a good sense of humor.
I agree with all of the above pretty much xD

Even though my beliefs are mainly what you'd call christian my perfect boyfriend wouldn't have to be though, as long as he can respect my beliefs and there isn't too much conflict then it's ok!

To be honest, I've always been attracted to the musician type but a "sexy instrument" is all in the eye of the beholder !

Hmm, the perfect guy wouldn't have to be confident since the last guy I had strong feelings for wasn't exactly the confident guy ever xD. As long he's confident to a certain agree then it's all good

Someone who is loyal,patient,honest ( this one is a HUGE thing for me)....
~ Sense of humour. that is definitely a big one for me and they need to have one that's somewhat similiar to mine
~ Reliable
~ Mature ( as me or more mature then me doesn't matter as long as they're not immature _
~ Great listener as well being able to keep up a conversation with me.
~Thoughtful
~ Sense of Fun as well as being able to have deep discussions about whatever. Like Life haha
~ Affectionate
~ Being able to get along with my family ( huge hispanic family xD they're kinda important in my life)
~ Support me in my dreams and anything else
~ Oh when it comes to fashion sense it doesn't matter that much as long as they don't dress like they're homeless xD

That's all I can think of... I'll add more to this list later lol!


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 9th 2011, 02:22 PM

For me, the perfect girlfriend would have to have the following qualities:
-kind
-beautiful; inside and out
-not all about sex
-devoted
-has to be able to stand my flaws
-funny
-believes in me
-unselfish
-not a person who judges
-a bit of a nerd 'cuz I'm one too.
-a forgiving person

The Perfect Boyfriend:
-funny
-kind
-handsome; inside and out
-not all about sex
-devoted
-has to be able to stand me at my worst
-caring
-truthful
-faitful
-unselfish
-not judging
-a forgiving person
-a bit of a jock




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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 9th 2011, 02:50 PM

1. Good hygiene (Seriously, this is the most important thing for me)
2. Makes me laugh/smile
3. I'm attracted to them
4. Above average intelligence
5. Cares about me
6. Faithful

Umm, that's basically it really, it all depends on the individual and the timing


   
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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 10th 2011, 12:02 AM

I have a bit of an unusual taste, but here we go...
-Pretty (sounds awful, I know, but it's the truth)
-Musical (preferably orchestral instrument/choir)
-Confident
-Childish (not in the sense of being immature but where you can do senseless things like play tag at a park and have fun or appreciate things with child-like wonder)
-Optimistic
-Nice (though not to the extent of letting people walk on you)
-Smart (doesn't have to be a genius, but enough to not use text speak and have an intelligent conversation)
-Willing to be independent (don't cling or feel like you can't disagree/argue with me)
-Romanticist (hard to explain, but I find myself really attracted to people who are whimsical about nature and weird, non-material things like that)
-Sense of humor (preferably a smart one, not that's what she said)
-Somewhat tomboyish (don't avoid things because they're unladylike)
-Really liberal (I don't care about politics, but be open to other ideas)
-Not overzealously religious (just personal taste, I hate when people condemn something because it's against they're religion and I hate intolerance towards other religions, homosexuals, etc.)


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 10th 2011, 12:49 AM

  1. Hot. For this I make no apologies. Looks are important to me. Slim, shorter than me, tight ass, pretty face, and long, soft hair. My "types", although I can and do step outside them, are smouldering redheads and Japanese girls. So I might need two girlfriends.
  2. Smart. Talking to her shouldn't make me want to bash my face against a wall. Intellectually, she needs to be able to keep up with me. Smart girls don't scare me, or at least they don't scare me any more than other girls.
  3. Uninhibited in the bedroom. Oral sex (and to a lesser extent anal) is a normal part of a healthy relationship, as is regular sex. She should recognise this. Should also be willing to try bondage and MFF threesomes (like I said, I might need two girlfriends).
  4. Easy to talk to. There are some people I just click with. My perfect girlfriend would be one of them. And if she's smart, snarky, a little nerdy, willing to mess around, and gets my references, I might actually fall in love for once.
  5. Loyal. Being cheated on sucks. Don't do that, girls.
  6. Interesting. I get bored of people easily. This is mostly a function of smart and easy to talk to, but she should have things going on. Musical girls are cool, especially if they sing.
  7. Liberal. We don't need to agree on everything, but BNP supporters, the strictly religious, and Tories need not apply. And no homophobes: I have too many gay friends for that to ever work.
Anyway, that's my perfect girlfriend. If that sounds like you, PM me.

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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 10th 2011, 10:20 AM

I don' think I have a 'perfect' template for a boyfriend, but there are a few things I like.
I want a guy who's a gamer, a bit of a dork.
A nice smile, doesn't have to be perfect, but needs to make me have butterflies.
Sexually experimental, can't be having guys who only like missionary
Non-judgemental. I'm not perfect, neither would he be. Accept my flaws or don't bother me.
A little musically inclined. Music is a passion of mine, and I want to be able to share it.
Has to be taller than me. Bending down to kiss someone just feels unnatural to me.
And not one of those 'pretty boys' I like a guy with a bit of edge, a bit different.

Of course, doesn't need to be all of them, but most would be needed to please me


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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 10th 2011, 10:31 AM

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Re: your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend - March 11th 2011, 07:56 PM

My perfect BF/GF would have a nice smile and a good sense of humour, would care for me and respect me, be trustworthy and trusting
   
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